darrin
10-11-2002, 04:46 PM
Me and my girlfriend are just beginning to experiment with sex and we have had "sex" twice. I didn't ejaculate I just went in for a little then pulled back out and we continued fooling arond in otherways. What are the chances that my pre-ejaclatory fluids could get her pregnant?
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darrin
10-11-2002, 04:53 PM
Before going in I dried at pre cum off and I wasn't in for long, what do you think?
sdp
10-11-2002, 05:33 PM
Well the chances are lower than if you were to ejaculate in her, but are you really willing to take the risk? If you're not, then what you're doing is just plain stupid.
AshLin
10-11-2002, 05:34 PM
Yes there is a high risk of her getting pregnant from pre-cum.. Always wear a condom. Since you are starting to be sexually active, maybe your girlfriend would consider another form of birth control as well. Better safe then sorry, the pullout method is not a form of birth control... just ask all my friends with kids ;)
Theresa15
10-12-2002, 12:48 AM
The pull out method is just an immature, and umprepared individuals excuse for taking precautions. HELL NO!
The pullout method fails more than any other method of birth control, (if you even want to call it that). Stupid move to try it, and maybe this is harsh, but if people are dumb enough to think that they are invincible, and decide to use the pullout method, then end up getting pregnant... I say "you deserve all the shi* you have to deal with. It could have been prevented and it's you own stupidity, and fault for being negligent towards your own future."
Anyway, now that you know how I think of the method.. LOL!
There is a chance she is pregnant, but not as high chance as it would be if you had fully ejaculated. Next time be smart, and put on a rubber. Five minutes out of your life to roll on some latex is a lot smarter than giving up a potential 19 years of your life, and most likely some berating from disapproving family.
I wouldn't sweat it that much. The odds are slim, but hopefully you will take what we say to heart and are a little more careful in the future.
The pullout method fails more than any other method of birth control, (if you even want to call it that). Stupid move to try it, and maybe this is harsh, but if people are dumb enough to think that they are invincible, and decide to use the pullout method, then end up getting pregnant... I say "you deserve all the shi* you have to deal with. It could have been prevented and it's you own stupidity, and fault for being negligent towards your own future."
Anyway, now that you know how I think of the method.. LOL!
There is a chance she is pregnant, but not as high chance as it would be if you had fully ejaculated. Next time be smart, and put on a rubber. Five minutes out of your life to roll on some latex is a lot smarter than giving up a potential 19 years of your life, and most likely some berating from disapproving family.
I wouldn't sweat it that much. The odds are slim, but hopefully you will take what we say to heart and are a little more careful in the future.
darrin
10-12-2002, 07:54 PM
I would like to thank everyone who posted at this topic. I understand it was dumb and we have already gotten condoms although we aren't going to do anything again until she gets her period because we are a little worried. I advise anyone who is thinking of becoming sexually active to use protection from day one so you don't have to worry like me and my girlfriend do.
mlgable
10-13-2002, 02:28 AM
I too would like to add that any time you are thinking about engaging in sex you should have already discussed with your partner what you would do should an accidental pregnancy occur since no method except abstinence is fool proof. If you don't have a clue what you would do if a pregnacy occured then you shouldn't be fooling around having sex.
Dawnrise
10-13-2002, 02:14 PM
The pull-out method is a very poor way of birth control. Unfortunately that's what happened to me when I was 16. Please use protection if you are not ready to have any children.