alice255
10-18-2002, 10:42 PM
Under the last topic on anal sex someone said that everyone thinks anal sex is messy but it isn't. Is that true for everyone? If it does get messy, isn't that a turn off? (I would be mortified!) Are enemas the answer?
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kimmy7
10-19-2002, 01:10 PM
I think anal sex is disgusting, dangerous & wrong! The anus is meant for one thing & one thing only...any other purpose I believe is sick.
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mlgable
10-19-2002, 01:48 PM
Anal sex is not messy unless you let it be messy. It can be a great source of sexual pleasure for many. If you are worried about it being messy then by all means use the bathroom before engaging in anal sex. So long as it is done properly anal sex is fine. It is definately not for everyone but if you think you might be interested then give it a try but do take your time.
Ottawa_guy
10-19-2002, 04:55 PM
Believe it or not some women can have incredible orgasms with anal sex.
I've never experienced a messy anal sex but I guess it could happen. If you are concerned then you can have an enema a part of your fore play.
I've never experienced a messy anal sex but I guess it could happen. If you are concerned then you can have an enema a part of your fore play.
lawtalkinguy
10-22-2002, 11:38 PM
yeah once there was a small incident, which occurred when me and the girl were very inexperienced. It wasn't too pleasant, but wasn't that bad.
Anal sex is a good excuse for her to have a good diet with plenty of fibre, keep the bowel health and clean. I mean if she had a stomach upset or whatever, then you wouldn't be going there.
I say that the penis and vagina are used for urinating, yet most people enjoy oral sex.... they weren't designed for oral sex if you take the biological determinism argument, so oral sex should be disgusting by that rational too.
keep an open mind and enjoy life, the rare ickyness is well compensated for by the amazing pleasure of it for him and her.
As for the 'isnt it a gay thing' - i feel that to not have both orifices available is to deny yourself the variety and fun of life....
Anal sex is a good excuse for her to have a good diet with plenty of fibre, keep the bowel health and clean. I mean if she had a stomach upset or whatever, then you wouldn't be going there.
I say that the penis and vagina are used for urinating, yet most people enjoy oral sex.... they weren't designed for oral sex if you take the biological determinism argument, so oral sex should be disgusting by that rational too.
keep an open mind and enjoy life, the rare ickyness is well compensated for by the amazing pleasure of it for him and her.
As for the 'isnt it a gay thing' - i feel that to not have both orifices available is to deny yourself the variety and fun of life....
Lady^
10-23-2002, 10:22 AM
Ummmmmm, lawtalkinguy, the vagina has nothing to do with urination.....the urethra takes care of that for us gals.
mlgable
10-23-2002, 11:24 AM
I sure hope lawtalkinguy does more sexual research before he has sex again since he doesn't seem to know basic female anatomy. Hopefully it was just a typo error on his part and he meant to type urethra but if not...............yikes.
Hezza
10-23-2002, 08:49 PM
holy ****, you guys are off the handle!
lawtalkinguy said vagina is used for urination. dont you people usually say the penis is used for urination as well? if you do, then you're a hypocrite and you're wrong, again, it's the urethra.
ya don't have to jump down the guys throat because he said the vagina is used for urination, it is the same organ more or less.
and to stick in my comments about oral sex, it's not messy if you take your time. you should be comfortable enough with the person you're doing it with that if it did get messy you wouldn't be incredibly embarassed. if you did get embarassed, i'd say you're not comfortable enough with this guy/girl to be getting intimate with him/her.
lawtalkinguy said vagina is used for urination. dont you people usually say the penis is used for urination as well? if you do, then you're a hypocrite and you're wrong, again, it's the urethra.
ya don't have to jump down the guys throat because he said the vagina is used for urination, it is the same organ more or less.
and to stick in my comments about oral sex, it's not messy if you take your time. you should be comfortable enough with the person you're doing it with that if it did get messy you wouldn't be incredibly embarassed. if you did get embarassed, i'd say you're not comfortable enough with this guy/girl to be getting intimate with him/her.
Lady^
10-24-2002, 10:15 AM
In a man the urethra is located in the penis. In a woman the urethra is NOT located in the vagina. The vagina is a seperate opening for intercourse, menstruation and childbirth.....not peeing.