Anette0513
07-31-2002, 01:07 AM
Hey Every1!
Ok so here is the deal... me and my boyfriend recently started having sex, and for some reason, I can't orgasm... I can orgasm thru masturbation tho!
Any advice would b great! Thanx Every1!! =)
~Anette0513
[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 11-09-2002).]
Ok so here is the deal... me and my boyfriend recently started having sex, and for some reason, I can't orgasm... I can orgasm thru masturbation tho!
Any advice would b great! Thanx Every1!! =)
~Anette0513
[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 11-09-2002).]
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mlgable
07-31-2002, 11:25 AM
Ok for the millionth time................many women do not, cannot or have not orgasmed with intercourse. This is not unusual. For some women they can eventually orgasm with intercourse if they also have direct clitoril stimulation. Some women simply are unable to orgasm with intercourse at all. You need to relax and just try various things for the fun of it to see if you can find a position that will bring you to orgasm. Since you know what makes you orgasm with masturbation then try some of these techniques while you are having intercourse if you can. But above all remember that many women do not orgasm with intercourse.
scbagrrrl
08-01-2002, 01:13 PM
Anette,
Some woman may not orgasm during intercourse, but it's certainly fun trying! Try different positions, not only is it more exciting, but you might find a position or two or ten that work for you. You also might find down the road a partner that does work. Sometimes you just get a better sense of confidence in yourself with someone else around - letting yourself totally go...
Some woman may not orgasm during intercourse, but it's certainly fun trying! Try different positions, not only is it more exciting, but you might find a position or two or ten that work for you. You also might find down the road a partner that does work. Sometimes you just get a better sense of confidence in yourself with someone else around - letting yourself totally go...
Lisa1171
08-01-2002, 03:19 PM
Hi, I have actually never had any orgasm during the actual intercourse unless either him or I are stimulating my clit. I have tried and tried again, but it has never worked. I will either have one before or after. Try different positions and that like the others have said. Maybe it will work for you. Good luck!
Michael _aka_Sparky
08-16-2002, 04:20 PM
My Wife & I have tried several things.
Try on your back with your hips raised by 2-3 pillows. It works wonders for my wife. At least that's what she tells me, LOL
Sparky
Try on your back with your hips raised by 2-3 pillows. It works wonders for my wife. At least that's what she tells me, LOL
Sparky
penny07
09-04-2002, 12:25 PM
buy some viacream go to a search on it :D
jasmine30
11-09-2002, 04:30 PM
Hi Annette,
STOP trying to Orgasm...If you can't O with Vaginal stimulation alone,then stimulate OR have your stud muffin stimulate your Clitoris(all the better).The harder(no pun)we try to accomplish something the more difficult it is to achieve what we are after...
Best of luck,
Jasmine
STOP trying to Orgasm...If you can't O with Vaginal stimulation alone,then stimulate OR have your stud muffin stimulate your Clitoris(all the better).The harder(no pun)we try to accomplish something the more difficult it is to achieve what we are after...
Best of luck,
Jasmine
metallichik
11-09-2002, 07:06 PM
like i said in a different post, try what i do.
since you said you can orgasm through masterbation, chances are he could probably make you orgasm by going down on you (if you have trained him well :D ). Anyway, have him do that first, or, you make yourself *** while he watches, kisses you, whatever (i'm sure he won't mind! he may even learn something!) As soon as you orgasm, jump on and take the ride of your life!! i like to be on top a lot because i can control depth and angle (G-spot!!) I orgasm the entire time, every time I do that! Have fun!! :p
[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 11-09-2002).]
since you said you can orgasm through masterbation, chances are he could probably make you orgasm by going down on you (if you have trained him well :D ). Anyway, have him do that first, or, you make yourself *** while he watches, kisses you, whatever (i'm sure he won't mind! he may even learn something!) As soon as you orgasm, jump on and take the ride of your life!! i like to be on top a lot because i can control depth and angle (G-spot!!) I orgasm the entire time, every time I do that! Have fun!! :p
[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 11-09-2002).]