Tifanie's Secret
10-20-2002, 09:37 PM
This is a little hard to ask!
I was just wondering.......
What do men in general like in bed?
What would you consider a good time in the sack?
I want to make my man think I am the best he has ever had. Any suggestions?
Thanks in Advance to Any Replies!!
I was just wondering.......
What do men in general like in bed?
What would you consider a good time in the sack?
I want to make my man think I am the best he has ever had. Any suggestions?
Thanks in Advance to Any Replies!!
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berto
10-20-2002, 09:54 PM
What do men generally like in bed ?
Their lady of course !! and that is the honest truth
Come what may. The passion takes care of itself.
Plan nothing - just let it flowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Their lady of course !! and that is the honest truth
Come what may. The passion takes care of itself.
Plan nothing - just let it flowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Tifanie's Secret
10-20-2002, 10:23 PM
There has to be some tips. I mean you guys talk I know. What is the best roll in the hay?
I mean haven't you ever been with someone that you thought was the very best you had ever had?
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I mean haven't you ever been with someone that you thought was the very best you had ever had?
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berto
10-21-2002, 01:12 AM
Nope - no tips.
Just let things happen as they may.
Don't seek out others advice on this subject.
Create your own male-pleasing ritual and let the passion fill you.
No more thinking, questioning, analyzing - just make love and will be right with the world
Just let things happen as they may.
Don't seek out others advice on this subject.
Create your own male-pleasing ritual and let the passion fill you.
No more thinking, questioning, analyzing - just make love and will be right with the world
KeithC
10-21-2002, 03:53 PM
Be passionate. Strictly MHO here, but there is nothing that's more of a turn-on for a man than to have a woman turned on *by* him. Be confident and honest about having your own desires and be an absolute animal in getting them fulfilled. To me, the biggest thrill was watching my wife come at me with that "lioness that hasn't eaten in a week" look in her eyes.
Just from my experience again but don't be too "sensitive" either. You don't need to ask, "Would you like 'x' or 'y'?" Just try it. I'm assuming your guy is all-grown-up and is capable of telling you that he doesn't like something. And, if he *does* ask you to stop something, don't take it personally. Just move on to the next inspiration and keep going.
So, one guy's suggestions: Aggressive, passionate sexual abandon with just a touch of selfish pleasuring.
<sigh>Crud. Three and a half hours before my wife gets home. I need to read this forum later in the day....
Good luck,
Keith C.
Just from my experience again but don't be too "sensitive" either. You don't need to ask, "Would you like 'x' or 'y'?" Just try it. I'm assuming your guy is all-grown-up and is capable of telling you that he doesn't like something. And, if he *does* ask you to stop something, don't take it personally. Just move on to the next inspiration and keep going.
So, one guy's suggestions: Aggressive, passionate sexual abandon with just a touch of selfish pleasuring.
<sigh>Crud. Three and a half hours before my wife gets home. I need to read this forum later in the day....
Good luck,
Keith C.
Tifanie's Secret
10-21-2002, 05:35 PM
So in other words you guys are telling me to act like an animal and be passionate?
Try to get in to it as much as possible at let him know that I am really enjoying it?
Try to get in to it as much as possible at let him know that I am really enjoying it?
F-Man
10-21-2002, 06:18 PM
I think being in love and having trust, honesty and communication are the most important things. Different people like different things. You need to find out what your partner likes. You're not going to find that out by asking other people. You'll find it out by asking him and by trying different things and seeing which ones get the most positive reaction from him. I wouldn't suggest being an animal. Some guys are probably turned off by a woman who is too wild and vocal. Maybe he's one of them or maybe he isn't.
KeithC
10-21-2002, 06:19 PM
Forgive me if I "play lawyer" about the choice of words, but I'm not telling you to *do* anything. I am, though, telling you what drives *me* bonkers. :D
And it's semantics again, but you should only do these things if it's how you really feel. Hopefully, you won't have to *try* to get into it but hell, yes, you should let him know when you're enjoying it! Not only is it good for our egos, it also teaches us what you like for future reference. Win-win, in my book.
And it's semantics again, but you should only do these things if it's how you really feel. Hopefully, you won't have to *try* to get into it but hell, yes, you should let him know when you're enjoying it! Not only is it good for our egos, it also teaches us what you like for future reference. Win-win, in my book.
Hadom79
10-22-2002, 09:36 AM
A few needed characteristics; playfulness, spontaneous, creativity, honesty, and being open (no pun intended). A couple who is willing to talk will is a sign of a couple who is open. Tell your partner. I want you to feel this... or I want you to do this..... You can be specific the here's the how's. It always drove me wild when my partner talked because it meant that it activity that she was really involving herself in. That charged my sexual batteries, and that was a bonus for her!!! Playfulness is valuable that among many other things it rids the two of you of shyness or inhibition. Remember that the best way to start off with a new partner is to explore each other. Take the time to discover each other. You both will benifit by this. Creativity says I want to make your day. After that things will work out in your favor, thats what the odds are anyways. Good Luck, maybe we'll hit some more topics latter
NYCclassyCpl
11-06-2002, 11:25 AM
Jumping in a little late here, but my advice is ....just enjoy. My wife used to spend so much time trying to make it the "best roll in the hay" ever that it was almost a huge turnoff. Nothing is sexier, more erotic, than having your lover lose contol and have the Big "O" because of you. Trust me, if your enjoying it then so will he/her.
P.S. As for oral....try the corkscrew technique.....curls my toes LOL
P.S. As for oral....try the corkscrew technique.....curls my toes LOL
PiePants
11-07-2002, 11:11 AM
lol....corkscrew technique.
The key is sudden, insane bursts of 'i need you now'. Okay really that's impossible, so tone it down by giving the guy the foreplay he needs to get riled up. He should also be doing the same for you. nothing pisses me off more than getting my GF at the point where she wants me bad, and I haven't had a thing to turn me on. It just becomes this really quick handjob or something while I grab the condom.
hmm....next time I'm gonna pull her closer to me and have her lick me all over before I even touch her back.
yep. give and take is also important. ah, the complexities of sex.
The key is sudden, insane bursts of 'i need you now'. Okay really that's impossible, so tone it down by giving the guy the foreplay he needs to get riled up. He should also be doing the same for you. nothing pisses me off more than getting my GF at the point where she wants me bad, and I haven't had a thing to turn me on. It just becomes this really quick handjob or something while I grab the condom.
hmm....next time I'm gonna pull her closer to me and have her lick me all over before I even touch her back.
yep. give and take is also important. ah, the complexities of sex.
humorme
11-18-2002, 06:11 PM
Scratch my back with nice long nails for an hour and I don't care what happens next!
Hezza
11-21-2002, 02:35 PM
Buy those sex dice!
They're great for foreplay!
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A good friend is someone who will bail you out of jail.
A best friend is someone who will sit next to you and say "That was fawkin' awesome!"
tonydoc
11-22-2002, 03:28 PM
If you're taking a survey, that's okay--but if you really want to know what YOUR man wants or expects, then probably the best way to find out is to ask HIM. We are all different, and what pleases one man may displease another. I would say that doing anything to him rather than letting him do anything to you might be great, but HE may not feel the same. Also, asking him to experiment something new on you might drive him crazy, but it may happen that HE will be put down instead. Stopping him halfway and asking him to do something else, then stopping that too and asking him to go back to the first thing, and then to another one, an so on may make you the best lover on earth to some man, but it may frustrate another one.
TeenageDude17
11-23-2002, 03:24 PM
Basically, if you're turned on by him, show that you are, but DON'T fake anything. That would just be awful, and maybe even a turn-off!