DO MEN REALLY LIKE THERE BALLS TO BE LICKED AND PLAYED WITH DURING SEX AND WHAT ABOUT WHILE THEY ejaculate DOES IT HELP OR HURT! O AND WHAT ABOUT TONGUE RINGS DO THEY REALLY MAKE U ejaculate MORE?

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[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 08-22-2003).]

My spouse loves have his scrotum and testicles liked, sucked, played with and everything else in between. Your best bet is to ask your partner what he does and doesn't like. Sex is all about communication.

Originally posted by mlgable:
Sex is all about communication.

Your'e quite right - it makes the difference between ok sex and mind blowing sex!!

I love having my balls played with / sucked - it turns me on no end.

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i agree on the communciation thing!! my hubby doesn't like too much going on around his nuts. it makes him nervous and he's never been able to relax enough for it to be enjoyable although i have never hurt him.

if in doubt ASK him!!!

Playing with the testicles does nothing for me and at times even bothers me. SO the answer is that it really depends on the person.

Men enjoy having their testicles played with during sex provided it is done gently. One of the most intensely stimulating things is to take a testicle into your mouth and gently lick it as part of oral sex. The key word though is GENTLY. Testicles are sensitive at all times and especially when aroused.

As for the tounge ring - I guess that's a matter of personal preference.

Originally posted by carolinakiss20:
O AND WHAT ABOUT TONGUE RINGS DO THEY REALLY MAKE U ejaculate MORE?

I have my tounge pierced. I have had guys tell me that they love the feeling of my tounge ring, but I don't think that it makes them ejaculate more.

Oh, and as for playing with his balls, I've heard that many guys like it. Just look at Cosmo. Every article about "pleasing your man" has to do with "yanking his balls." It's really up to the guy.

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[This message has been edited by wondertwin44 (edited 08-23-2003).]

Personally my man loves his balls played with. Luckilly for us both I love doing it also :D

As far as the tongue ring goes, it does depend on preference, however I've heard it feels good. *shrug* I don't know b/c I don't have one, and never been with a guy who's tongue was pierced. Can't say I'm in any hurry to find out if it's true or not.

Communication IS key! Trust me, it will make a world of difference.