sundaymorningnerd
09-11-2002, 10:55 AM
sick of the same old thing.
any ideas?
any ideas?
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PAISLEY
09-11-2002, 02:18 PM
Uhmm, what's the same old thing? http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/confused.gif
Disposition
09-11-2002, 09:22 PM
Yes, I agree.
Telling us what the "same old thing" is could help us a bit.
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"Tomorrow may be better, but today I choose not to feel..."
Telling us what the "same old thing" is could help us a bit.
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"Tomorrow may be better, but today I choose not to feel..."
sundaymorningnerd
09-12-2002, 02:33 AM
erm
traditional masterbation of the female kind.
fingering myself yo.
traditional masterbation of the female kind.
fingering myself yo.
mlgable
09-12-2002, 10:02 AM
Fingering yourself..............fingering your vagina or your clit or both?? Be more specific about what you are doing if you want more sugestions. Have you tried a vibrator yet? There are many things that can be sugested but not until you are more specific.
sweetchica
10-07-2002, 06:48 PM
I have a great way. It feels so good.Lay down in your bathtub with your legs up and let the water from the faucet rush down on your clit. Its great!
Sweety Pie
10-07-2002, 07:35 PM
rub ur clit really fast, like put both hands together on ur clit and rub up and down
Louise2
10-03-2003, 01:15 AM
Sweety pie,
I have to agree with you that rubbing my clit really gets me going.
I find the best way is to get totally naked, lie face down on the bed with my pillow between my legs. Then I just rub back and forth untill I shudder in an orgasm. Try it...
I do want to purchase a vibrator though....
I have to agree with you that rubbing my clit really gets me going.
I find the best way is to get totally naked, lie face down on the bed with my pillow between my legs. Then I just rub back and forth untill I shudder in an orgasm. Try it...
I do want to purchase a vibrator though....
TeTr01
10-03-2003, 12:03 PM
Originally posted by Sweety Pie:
rub ur clit really fast, like put both hands together on ur clit and rub up and down
I have not yet gotten a vibrator & this is the way I have been masturbating (but not both hands at the same time, 1 at a time then switch off sometimes if that hand gets tired ;) !). The only problem is that if I do it like 3 times (in a row in 1 day or just 1 time a day for 3 days) I get a little sore down there & when I go to do it for the 4th time I end up having to stop before I orgams! I do the water thing (I don't have a removable shower-head yet, either, so I lay under the faucet) & while it feels really good, it doesn't make me orgasm.
Am I doing something wrong to make it sore? Also, how come I can't orgams with the faucet - maybe the water doesn't come out of mine hard enough??
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rub ur clit really fast, like put both hands together on ur clit and rub up and down
I have not yet gotten a vibrator & this is the way I have been masturbating (but not both hands at the same time, 1 at a time then switch off sometimes if that hand gets tired ;) !). The only problem is that if I do it like 3 times (in a row in 1 day or just 1 time a day for 3 days) I get a little sore down there & when I go to do it for the 4th time I end up having to stop before I orgams! I do the water thing (I don't have a removable shower-head yet, either, so I lay under the faucet) & while it feels really good, it doesn't make me orgasm.
Am I doing something wrong to make it sore? Also, how come I can't orgams with the faucet - maybe the water doesn't come out of mine hard enough??
[This message has been edited by TeTr01 (edited 10-03-2003).]
Louise2
10-04-2003, 09:15 AM
TeTri,
I wouldnt say that you are doing anything wrong to cause the tenderness. Clitoris is a very very sensative part of our bodies. I know that if I had direct contact with mine on a regular basis, Id be in a bit of pain too.
Regarding the faucet, well I do not know why you can not orgasm. maybe you are right, the pressure isnt right for you. I must say, that is something that I had not thought of. Im going to give it a try. However I am completley happy with my method, it works a hoot for me.
I wouldnt say that you are doing anything wrong to cause the tenderness. Clitoris is a very very sensative part of our bodies. I know that if I had direct contact with mine on a regular basis, Id be in a bit of pain too.
Regarding the faucet, well I do not know why you can not orgasm. maybe you are right, the pressure isnt right for you. I must say, that is something that I had not thought of. Im going to give it a try. However I am completley happy with my method, it works a hoot for me.
TeTr01
10-04-2003, 01:55 PM
I dunno why that happens to me, seems like a lot of women out there masturbate everyday & more than once a day & don't have a problem with soreness - but everyone is defferent!
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maybelle
10-04-2003, 05:17 PM
Okay, I am not crazy. I have tried masturbating discreetly while driving, using my hands, fingers or end of a pen. It is so awesome, partly becuase i love to drive.... so putting the two together is just awesome. I only do it once in a while in fear someoen might be checking me out. Has anyone ever done this... or am i just weird?
brightstar
10-04-2003, 06:15 PM
Yeah, I've done that on really long car trips when I'm by myself! It helps to relieve the boredom.
TeTr01
10-04-2003, 06:20 PM
nevermind
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raspberry
10-09-2003, 11:19 AM
buy a vibrator which has a clit stimulator and a penis. they're are lots and lots of fun, especially the ones where u can change the speed!
miper
12-08-2003, 09:23 AM
They are lots of fun, but I get off way too fast. Can't help it........feels sooooooo good!
rainbowgrl
12-08-2003, 03:58 PM
you can also try lubricant when masturbating then you shouldn't get as much friction that leads to the "raw tenderness" you have been experiencing. I would also like to say to whoever mentioned it before, I also love laying on the bed on my stomach with a pillow between my legs. I have the some of the best orgasms that way, but it has always made me feel kinda weird though, that is the way my babysitter taught me to do it when I was 5(she was female).
Kristi
Kristi
RebelRocker
12-08-2003, 04:43 PM
What type of babysitter did you have? I couldnt imagine that naturally coming up in conversation.
rainbowgrl
12-08-2003, 05:20 PM
I was trying to say that I have the best orgasms this way, but I feel very weird and panicky afterward, due to the abuse. Even though I love doing it this way, I have the biggest anxiety attacks afterward, kinda like PTSD. I can't say that my babysitter physically molested me, but she did show me things that a five year old should never have to see. So to recap it for you, My babysitter showed me how to do this, It gives me the best orgasms, but all I can think of afterward is the sicko who showed me how to do it, So i have to use different methods to masturbate that aren't as effective or as enjoyable for me. Hopefully this is a little clearer. I never knew I should be embarrassed about my abuse and keep it quite. I have always thought that the person doing the abuse should be the one embarrassed for what they have done to a little kid.
Kristi
Kristi
Babs66
12-09-2003, 03:13 AM
[QUOTE=rainbowgrl] I never knew I should be embarrassed about my abuse and keep it quite. I have always thought that the person doing the abuse should be the one embarrassed for what they have done to a little kid.
You are right. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. I was abused also when I was 6 by a family member. He used to make me watch porn with him and touch him. It was creepy and disturbing, needless to say.
Now, in my 30's, I'll occassionally watch a porn movie with my boyfriend and although I enjoy it, sometimes I get that weird sick feeling.
You are right. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. I was abused also when I was 6 by a family member. He used to make me watch porn with him and touch him. It was creepy and disturbing, needless to say.
Now, in my 30's, I'll occassionally watch a porn movie with my boyfriend and although I enjoy it, sometimes I get that weird sick feeling.
Babs66
12-09-2003, 03:18 AM
Oops...almost forgot...Vibrators Rock!
subgirl
12-09-2003, 06:34 AM
[QUOTE=rainbowgrl] I never knew I should be embarrassed about my abuse and keep it quite. I have always thought that the person doing the abuse should be the one embarrassed for what they have done to a little kid.
You are right. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. I was abused also when I was 6 by a family member. He used to make me watch porn with him and touch him. It was creepy and disturbing, needless to say.
Now, in my 30's, I'll occassionally watch a porn movie with my boyfriend and although I enjoy it, sometimes I get that weird sick feeling.
This is for you and rainbowgrl...what these people did to you two is sickening and criminally and morally wrong.Do not carry the sick feeling with you any longer as the problem does not lie with you or anything about you.You both have the right to enjoy sex and your bodies guilt-free.Your chosen method of masturbation(rainbowgrl) may have still been the same without the abuse, as you have seen on here, lots of women masturbate this way.And as for the porn, try not to associate this with the pervert who made you watch it so young-do not let him continue to affect you 30 years later, he is scum and not worth one more thought from you...hard for me to say, i know, but honestly...letting go of this now and moving on is something you deserve, because you are worth more than where you are now.Good luck to both of you x
You are right. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. I was abused also when I was 6 by a family member. He used to make me watch porn with him and touch him. It was creepy and disturbing, needless to say.
Now, in my 30's, I'll occassionally watch a porn movie with my boyfriend and although I enjoy it, sometimes I get that weird sick feeling.
This is for you and rainbowgrl...what these people did to you two is sickening and criminally and morally wrong.Do not carry the sick feeling with you any longer as the problem does not lie with you or anything about you.You both have the right to enjoy sex and your bodies guilt-free.Your chosen method of masturbation(rainbowgrl) may have still been the same without the abuse, as you have seen on here, lots of women masturbate this way.And as for the porn, try not to associate this with the pervert who made you watch it so young-do not let him continue to affect you 30 years later, he is scum and not worth one more thought from you...hard for me to say, i know, but honestly...letting go of this now and moving on is something you deserve, because you are worth more than where you are now.Good luck to both of you x
Audrey-B
12-09-2003, 09:21 PM
I guess the methods i use are the typical standard forms of masterbation, but when i'm turned on, i'm turned on and i don't find any method boring. I've never thought of buying a vibrator. When i was single and younger i did experiment with the odd object to help me climax, so i guess that is sort of like using a vibrator. Now i'm married and have the husband for that purpose :D
My favourite form is what i've used since before the age of five. (this is a complex position to describe) I for some reason found myself laying on my left side with my thighs together and moving/rocking my hip area and no touching with fingers was needed. Soon i found i was having orgasms and never knew what they were, but they felt good. It wasn't till many years later that i dared "touch" myself with my hands in a sexual way down there. I was brought up that touching yourself down there was naughty, but nobody said that the other things i did to bring myself to orgasm were bad but then again, nobody saw me do those other things, so i kept doing it and today it's still as effective as ever. I think adults teach kids that touching themselves is bad, b/c if they didn't, kids would be doing that in public and infront of family members.
So there you go rainbow, don't feel dirty or bad about your babysitter, you would likely have discovered orgasms in that particular position as it's very common for women to rub up against something to climax. However, what your sitter did was wrong as you were a young child with no concept of sex. It would have been different if you had been in your teens and over the age of consent. Don't blame yourself for what happened.
My favourite form is what i've used since before the age of five. (this is a complex position to describe) I for some reason found myself laying on my left side with my thighs together and moving/rocking my hip area and no touching with fingers was needed. Soon i found i was having orgasms and never knew what they were, but they felt good. It wasn't till many years later that i dared "touch" myself with my hands in a sexual way down there. I was brought up that touching yourself down there was naughty, but nobody said that the other things i did to bring myself to orgasm were bad but then again, nobody saw me do those other things, so i kept doing it and today it's still as effective as ever. I think adults teach kids that touching themselves is bad, b/c if they didn't, kids would be doing that in public and infront of family members.
So there you go rainbow, don't feel dirty or bad about your babysitter, you would likely have discovered orgasms in that particular position as it's very common for women to rub up against something to climax. However, what your sitter did was wrong as you were a young child with no concept of sex. It would have been different if you had been in your teens and over the age of consent. Don't blame yourself for what happened.