Blind86
07-27-2002, 01:09 AM
I'm 16 and my GF is flipping out. I fingered her really hard and deep the other day and really fast. This was the first time i did it this hard. the day after she said it was bleeding and had turned a purplish color on the inside and it was a very light pink on the lip. She says it hurts when you touch it in certain places and i am very worried about it. I don't know if i bruised her or what. I'm responsible for it. I love her and i want to make sure she's gonna be ok. Please help
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Valhalla
07-27-2002, 01:21 AM
The best thing to do is for her to see a doctor to pinpoint exactly what is wrong.
Your story does seem to fit as to why she's in pain. Fingering hard and fast can result in bruises (purple tint), rub burns (pink tint) and bleeding (ripped tissue from exessive rubbing or scratches from fingernails).
She could give it time to heal. But, again, a check with the doctor is her best bet.
Hope this helps and best of luck to you!
Aloha! :wave:
[This message has been edited by Valhalla (edited 07-27-2002).]
Your story does seem to fit as to why she's in pain. Fingering hard and fast can result in bruises (purple tint), rub burns (pink tint) and bleeding (ripped tissue from exessive rubbing or scratches from fingernails).
She could give it time to heal. But, again, a check with the doctor is her best bet.
Hope this helps and best of luck to you!
Aloha! :wave:
[This message has been edited by Valhalla (edited 07-27-2002).]
AshleeD
07-27-2002, 01:41 AM
If it doesn't heal in a week or so, I'd suggest a doctor. I've been fingered like this before and had sex with someone who penetrated very deep and much harder than usual and the results didn't turn out very good :( If you're not used to being handled roughly in that region, you won't have a good experience with it. Hope this helps and don't feel bad. You didn't mean to hurt your girlfriend purposefully and I'm sure she's not mad at you. Btw, I've also bled from being fingered hard...so don't sweat it, just make sure next time you are more gentle. We are sensitive down there just like you are and sometimes too hard isn't fun :) Take care and hope this helps!
http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif~Ashlee :wave:
http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif~Ashlee :wave:
Slick
07-31-2002, 04:58 PM
That happened to me. I never saw a doctor or anything like that. When my bf wanted to i just told him i didnt want it :nono: I just let it go for a week or so and it seemed to clear up. But if it doesnt for you gf i do suggest a doctor. Good Luck Hun. :)
Mushmellon
08-04-2002, 03:18 PM
and wash your hands before and after. anything you might have on your hands/fingers may irritate or cause infections. I can't stress this enough.
BabyPhat6969
12-04-2002, 10:34 PM
Hey.First off,its good that your consirned about it and everything.Ok this happend to me before..it really hurt down there after my guy fingered me and everythin.Well anyways it started to get worse so I thought I had a bladder infection and the DR gave me meds for it and its all better now...hopes i helped.Much love