KiTtEnGrS117
10-30-2002, 11:07 PM
I know that this is the same thing that I had in the other one but no one seems to be replying and I really need to be more secure about this! I have no idea what to do and I need to be reassured that things will be okay, or have someone make reality kick in for me!
On Sunday I was over at my boyfriend's house and we were messing around. He had fingered me that day before and then later after he washed his hands he did again.
Later on I started to give him a hand job and he ejaculated but I had all my clothes on. Some did get on my pants but we cleaned it off really well. We both rinsed our hands right after it happened.
About 30 mins later we went upstairs and he washed again 3 more times with hot, and I mean HOT water and a lot of soap. And I did the same.
We later went downstairs and he fingered me again and now I don't know if I can get pregent. I should be getting my period soon but I am so worried.
What I really want to know is how long sperm lives outside the body and if it was safe what we did after.
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Stephi
On Sunday I was over at my boyfriend's house and we were messing around. He had fingered me that day before and then later after he washed his hands he did again.
Later on I started to give him a hand job and he ejaculated but I had all my clothes on. Some did get on my pants but we cleaned it off really well. We both rinsed our hands right after it happened.
About 30 mins later we went upstairs and he washed again 3 more times with hot, and I mean HOT water and a lot of soap. And I did the same.
We later went downstairs and he fingered me again and now I don't know if I can get pregent. I should be getting my period soon but I am so worried.
What I really want to know is how long sperm lives outside the body and if it was safe what we did after.
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Stephi
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Blastoff9600
10-31-2002, 01:35 AM
I already answered your other post. The information is accurate. Chances are NIL(meaning no chance) that you are pregnant with the precautions you and your bf took.
Woman*of*the*night
10-31-2002, 02:48 AM
**** I cant imagine what its going to be like when you and your boyfriend start having sex. I think you need to chill out a little, maybe go on the pill or something to ease your mind a bit.
AshLin
10-31-2002, 04:40 PM
I think it's good that you are concerned... better then not caring at all. I agree with the above poster... why don't you consider going on the birth control pill? Are there Planned Parenthoods in your area?
You aren't pregnant... but I understand why you are stressing. Ease your mind and start using some sort of contraception.
You aren't pregnant... but I understand why you are stressing. Ease your mind and start using some sort of contraception.
Dramaqueen
10-31-2002, 04:52 PM
Wow good on you for being so careful, its great. :D However you don't want to be stressing the whole time your fooling around. How about you try a birth control pill or something? That will help to put your mind at ease alot!
nicola76
11-01-2002, 06:42 AM
Just try to relax. You and your boyfriend took a lot of precautions. There's no chance that you're pregnant. Continuing to stress yourself out like this will just make your period late and cause even more stress! Relax.
When/if you and your boyfriend decide to start having sex I would suggest visiting your family doc or Planned Parenthood to get on some birth control. The pill along with condoms should make you feel more at ease.
Take care!
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When/if you and your boyfriend decide to start having sex I would suggest visiting your family doc or Planned Parenthood to get on some birth control. The pill along with condoms should make you feel more at ease.
Take care!
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Gibra
11-02-2002, 12:06 AM
"I want to mess around but I don't want a baby..."
I may sound harsh but doesn't this sound a lot like: "I want to make a lot of money but I don't want to work!"
If you want to keep messing around, FIRST use proper protection. But even with a good birth control method, there are no guarantees! So, before fooling around, make sure you are mature enough to handle the consequences.
I may sound harsh but doesn't this sound a lot like: "I want to make a lot of money but I don't want to work!"
If you want to keep messing around, FIRST use proper protection. But even with a good birth control method, there are no guarantees! So, before fooling around, make sure you are mature enough to handle the consequences.
Roger100
11-06-2002, 02:19 PM
There was a higher chance of lightning striking you then getting pregnant. So just relax. However do be careful but don't worry so much. Use a condom or another contraceptive.
PiePants
11-06-2002, 08:11 PM
Sperm survives four hours outside the body. However if you wash it off, it doesn't matter, does it?
Sharshae
11-08-2002, 11:38 AM
girl,, you are crazy you gotta be all of 12 years old if you dont kno . well look first off you need to go to health classes and learn that you cant' gethave a baby with out having sex. Also , ,if you not ready dont let him force you
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Blastoff9600
11-08-2002, 11:46 AM
Sharshae,I think you need to go the some SEXUAL ED classes. One can get pregnant without actually having vaginal sex. Anal sex,rubbing the penis on the vuvla,semen on the hands,ejaculating near/on the vuvla can put one at risk for pregnancy.
Semen only has to come in contact wth the vuvla,no matter how it comes in that contact to putone at risk for pregnancy. Sperm are determined little things.
Semen only has to come in contact wth the vuvla,no matter how it comes in that contact to putone at risk for pregnancy. Sperm are determined little things.
Sharshae
11-10-2002, 08:30 PM
ok then butt head . if u know so much then u needa teach the ***** something cause i aint on it . but girl if u need anymoreadvise on anything else holla cause i am good at most ****
Blastoff9600
11-11-2002, 05:21 PM
I didnt say anything about pregnant virgins. I simply said one doesnt have to have intercourse to get pregnant.
The reason I know is simple. It is called READING and LIFE EXPERIENCE. I do knowof one friend that didnt have sex with her bf,he and she did fool around naked but they both got scared because he didnt have a condom with him so they stopped. Well nine and half months later her first daughter was born. She actually didnt have sex with him until she was two months pregnant. Though she wasnt a virgin because she had partners before that bf. They were both stunned to say the least when she foundout she was pregnant. The doctor confirmed through ultrasound the age of the fetus. When the two of them sat down and discussed hwo it could have happened that was the only time in which they came so close.
So yes it can happen. Granted the chances are slim but they can and do happen.
Also wanted to add I would prefer if you two wouldnt try insulting me. You do know that this name calling stuff is a bit immature. And then of course it also against board guide lines.
[This message has been edited by Blastoff9600 (edited 11-11-2002).]
The reason I know is simple. It is called READING and LIFE EXPERIENCE. I do knowof one friend that didnt have sex with her bf,he and she did fool around naked but they both got scared because he didnt have a condom with him so they stopped. Well nine and half months later her first daughter was born. She actually didnt have sex with him until she was two months pregnant. Though she wasnt a virgin because she had partners before that bf. They were both stunned to say the least when she foundout she was pregnant. The doctor confirmed through ultrasound the age of the fetus. When the two of them sat down and discussed hwo it could have happened that was the only time in which they came so close.
So yes it can happen. Granted the chances are slim but they can and do happen.
Also wanted to add I would prefer if you two wouldnt try insulting me. You do know that this name calling stuff is a bit immature. And then of course it also against board guide lines.
[This message has been edited by Blastoff9600 (edited 11-11-2002).]
milly696
11-11-2002, 07:31 PM
you dont what your talking about. its all fun until some ****er cant handle it.
wrin
11-12-2002, 06:48 PM
milly, blastoff is right.
I mean, let's do the math on this.
Semen can survive up to 4 hours outside the human body.
Hundreds of millions of sperm are released in a single ejaculation -- this is not to say this is the only time sperm is released either -- sperm can be released with pre-cum, though a smaller amount -- this is why withdrawal is not a safe method of birth control.
If semen is dropped near the vulva or on the vulva or finds its way into the vulva (via hands with semen on them etc) it can make you pregnant. It only takes one!
Kittens you don't sound very old to me -- but that's not the point. I think if you are terribly worried about getting pregnant you should get on the pill and it will help alleviate your worries. Also, if your bf or you get semen on your hands to wash them -- just soap and warm water, you will actually do a better job with warm water than with hot water because you will not be rushing to keep from getting scalded. Washing your hands is a good idea.
Chances you're pregnant are practically nothing though. If you were to get pregnant from this I'd stick it in a record book.
But seriously, get on the pill. It'll help you quit worrying.
I mean, let's do the math on this.
Semen can survive up to 4 hours outside the human body.
Hundreds of millions of sperm are released in a single ejaculation -- this is not to say this is the only time sperm is released either -- sperm can be released with pre-cum, though a smaller amount -- this is why withdrawal is not a safe method of birth control.
If semen is dropped near the vulva or on the vulva or finds its way into the vulva (via hands with semen on them etc) it can make you pregnant. It only takes one!
Kittens you don't sound very old to me -- but that's not the point. I think if you are terribly worried about getting pregnant you should get on the pill and it will help alleviate your worries. Also, if your bf or you get semen on your hands to wash them -- just soap and warm water, you will actually do a better job with warm water than with hot water because you will not be rushing to keep from getting scalded. Washing your hands is a good idea.
Chances you're pregnant are practically nothing though. If you were to get pregnant from this I'd stick it in a record book.
But seriously, get on the pill. It'll help you quit worrying.
Eeyore II
11-23-2002, 05:34 AM
Although it is uncommon you CAN get pregnant without sex. and calling BLASTOF A BUTTHEAD IS UNCALLED FOR you are not very bright yourself SHARSHAE if you are calling others names when you have no idea about sex and pregnancy YOU ARE MAKING YOURSELF LOOK STUPID ON HERE. YOU NEED TO READ UP ON THIS YOURSELF. If you dont know all the ways to get pregnant you have no business having sex.
spilled_applejuice
11-27-2002, 09:41 PM
i personally think you ahve nothing to worry about at all. I have unprotected sex with my boyfriend all the time, (NOT A GOOD THING) and i get freaked out real bad. Believe me you have nothing to worry about. Getting it on your clothes is nothing. Even if some got on your (private parts) as long as it didnt go "in" your pretty good to go.
BabyBlu365
12-05-2002, 09:29 PM
ok...sperm lives for 48 hours after ejaculation and u can get pregnant without having sex. So if anyone tells u that u can't they are lieing their asses off to you. Your chances of getting pregnant without having sex are slim to none but it can happen. Just like it can happen while ure on ure period. I don't care what anyone tells u it can happen. Even your doctor will agree with me. But u two seemed like u took the proper precautions for the types of things u are doing. But if u are really worried that u are gonna be one in the 17 million people that gets pregnant that way then get on the pill. Remember it only takes one sperm cell and one egg to create a child...ure chances of that sperm cell being able to swim that far and make it to the egg before the 48 hours is up are extremely slim. And ure chances after that of the sperm even penetrating the egg is rare. But u can get pregnant if ure on top of him giving him a hand job without clothes and it gets on ure vagina. It is sooo extremely rare though...I want u to remember that it is sooo extremely rare. I really don't think u have anything to worry about! Don't stress it and think about b.c.! I hope this helps!!
Blastoff9600
12-06-2002, 12:55 AM
Actually babyblu,sperm outside both bodies can live up to four hours. Inside the female body it can live way longer than 48 hours. They normally live 3 to 5 days and can even live as long as 7 days.