KiTtEnGrS117
10-30-2002, 10:26 PM
On Sunday I was over at my boyfriend's house and we were messing around. He had fingered me that day before and then later after he washed his hands he did again.
Later on I started to give him a hand job and he ejaculated but I had all my clothes on. Some did get on my pants but we cleaned it off really well. We both rinsed our hands right after it happened.
About 30 mins later we went upstairs and he washed again 3 more times with hot, and I mean HOT water and a lot of soap. And I did the same.
We later went downstairs and he fingered me again and now I don't know if I can get pregent. I should be getting my period soon but I am so worried.
What I really want to know is how long sperm lives outside the body and if it was safe what we did after.
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Stephi
Later on I started to give him a hand job and he ejaculated but I had all my clothes on. Some did get on my pants but we cleaned it off really well. We both rinsed our hands right after it happened.
About 30 mins later we went upstairs and he washed again 3 more times with hot, and I mean HOT water and a lot of soap. And I did the same.
We later went downstairs and he fingered me again and now I don't know if I can get pregent. I should be getting my period soon but I am so worried.
What I really want to know is how long sperm lives outside the body and if it was safe what we did after.
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Stephi
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Blastoff9600
10-30-2002, 10:36 PM
Washing your hands and his was the proper thing to do. Your chances are nil..so relax. You both did the right thing with the hand washing because it got rid of the semen that may have been left there.
Just so you know that sperm can live up to four hours outside the male body.
Just so you know that sperm can live up to four hours outside the male body.
Dramaqueen
10-31-2002, 05:05 PM
Hey its great your've been taking precautions! Good on you. Why don't you try a BC pill if your really worried about getting pregnant while messing around?-It might take the stress off your mind and let you have more fun.
If you don't want to though, thats cool, just keep on being careful and taking precautions and you should be fine! :D
If you don't want to though, thats cool, just keep on being careful and taking precautions and you should be fine! :D
PiePants
11-03-2002, 10:06 PM
omg....
I'm 22 and I never even thought about that. It's a good thing I never ejaculated in the open (we usually use tissues).
Wow, I have to keep that in mind. Thanks kiddies!
I'm 22 and I never even thought about that. It's a good thing I never ejaculated in the open (we usually use tissues).
Wow, I have to keep that in mind. Thanks kiddies!
milly696
11-07-2002, 04:11 PM
i think you have to have sex to get pregnant so stop worrying. and washing after foreplay omigod thats just weird, foreplay is not that risky so stop been so uptight and lay back and enjoy it!!! you should'nt worry so much about that sort of thing until you actually have sex.
Blastoff9600
11-07-2002, 05:26 PM
Milly, hate to break it to you darlin' but you dont have to have vaginal sex to get pregnant. A guy with semen on his hands can put one at risk for pregnancy,anal sex can put one at risk for pregnancy,a guy ejaculating on or near the vuvla can put one at risk for pregnancy. Granted the chances are slimmer but they are still there and a person needs to be very aware of that fact.
Woman*of*the*night
11-13-2002, 12:17 AM
Originally posted by milly696:
i think you have to have sex to get pregnant so stop worrying. and washing after foreplay omigod thats just weird, foreplay is not that risky so stop been so uptight and lay back and enjoy it!!! you should'nt worry so much about that sort of thing until you actually have sex.
Ummm yeah, Im not here to rip you to shreads, and I agree that people have there own beliefs or whatever but that has nothing to do with what were talking about, This girl might think now that all her precautions are not neccassary, when in fact, there has been plenty of known cases of girls getting pregnant, without any actually sexual intercourse. washing your hands after forplay should be an automatic thing anyway, i mean who wants to go around with their hands smelling like their partners genitals!! (Im sure i cant speak for everyone, in saying that though!!) On the other hand KittenGRS you might be getting a little to busy worrying about getting pregnant all the time, than the actually closeness and intamcy you and your boyfriend could be experiencing during foreplay, and in that case what would be the point!!
i think you have to have sex to get pregnant so stop worrying. and washing after foreplay omigod thats just weird, foreplay is not that risky so stop been so uptight and lay back and enjoy it!!! you should'nt worry so much about that sort of thing until you actually have sex.
Ummm yeah, Im not here to rip you to shreads, and I agree that people have there own beliefs or whatever but that has nothing to do with what were talking about, This girl might think now that all her precautions are not neccassary, when in fact, there has been plenty of known cases of girls getting pregnant, without any actually sexual intercourse. washing your hands after forplay should be an automatic thing anyway, i mean who wants to go around with their hands smelling like their partners genitals!! (Im sure i cant speak for everyone, in saying that though!!) On the other hand KittenGRS you might be getting a little to busy worrying about getting pregnant all the time, than the actually closeness and intamcy you and your boyfriend could be experiencing during foreplay, and in that case what would be the point!!
relaygirl84
12-08-2002, 02:27 AM
Stephi~
I hate to break it to ya...but I do have a friend who did get pregnant from foreplay(and yes, she was a virgin!). Granted...I'm sure that this does not happen all that often! It was just one of those weird things that happened. The guy had semen on his fingers when he fingered her, and she ended getting pregnant. But honestly...if I were you, I wouldn't worry about it too much. The odds of it happening are really low!
relaygirl
I hate to break it to ya...but I do have a friend who did get pregnant from foreplay(and yes, she was a virgin!). Granted...I'm sure that this does not happen all that often! It was just one of those weird things that happened. The guy had semen on his fingers when he fingered her, and she ended getting pregnant. But honestly...if I were you, I wouldn't worry about it too much. The odds of it happening are really low!
relaygirl
curiouslilgirl
12-08-2002, 02:37 PM
yeah, hey guys, but let me tell you i endulged in a lil forplay last month in november well needless to say i got some seemen on my hands and wiped my hand off and thought that was goo enough. like all u people who think that they dont have to be so uptight would have done. well all u uptight people out there i have respect in you and all of what you guys are doing to tell them that what they did was smart good job, cuz now my period is almost 3 weeks late and i think im pregnant for gettng seemen on my hands then i pissed and touched the toliet paper which went into my vagina soooo you figure it out while i flip out and go get myself a pregnancy test. cuz i didnt think that i would get pregnant form that, bu after hearing your stories i am now paranoid!
Wonder03
12-15-2002, 08:53 PM
curious little girl, don't be too worried about it. I'm not saying there isn't a chance, but the chance that you have of being pregnant by that is VERY small. Don't stress too much until you know for sure. Good Luck with that. As for Milly, you are going to end up in some serious trouble if you have an attitude like that. Either you're just a bonehead or an immature little kid that needs to stop posting stupid things on these boards.
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Apollo
12-15-2002, 10:23 PM
To add, the average chance of a women getting pregent without any protection is 14%.
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