Hi,

It is an individual thing. Some people have higher pain tolerance than others, and also the anatomy of people can be different.

My first time hurt like hell, I cried, but my boyfriend was very nice and comforted me. Actually, the first time I was about to lose my virginity, my bf couldn't do it all the way cuz he saw the pain on my face.

Also, I got this pain like 3-5 times after the first intercourse, but all the time it was diminishing, and now I feel no pain... pure pleasure!

I didn't really bleed during my first intercourse, but afterwards. And during my 2nd intercourse I bleeded, and also afterwards. The 3rd time I bleeded some afterwards.

I think that my fear of pain played a big role in this also. I was really afraid of the pain cuz I had heard so much about it. But even though it would hurt, it's worth it!

Just remember to have your first time with someone special cuz intercourse involves many feelings. I never knew I would get so emotional during and after intercourse. I know some people say that it's better to get rid of the pain with someone who you don't care about, and who doesn't care about you, but anyways, my opinion is that the person should be someone special.

~whippo~

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