i'm trying to understand the whole concept of this because as whole,i still love my x,who has a drinking problem.
his drinking has gotten worse since i left 4 yrs ago.we weren't married. we have still talked.
he is holding a grudge on me from wen i left,and drinking more now.
i found since i lost touch w/him,and the time we spent i missed.
i felt codependent on him and still do.
right now i feel as if he never loved me or if he did,he'd be back w/me now.
am i wrong?
why wouldn't he let go of past grudges?????