I have the best of both worlds.. i have split ends all the time, i just got it cut like 3 weeks ago, and then i have dandruff. I think its my water, we have well water, but anyone know any good remedies for either or even both? any good shampoos to try out

A good shampoo to try is TGel, I beleive its made by neutrogena. You only need to use it a couple of times a week. Other than that if the dandruff persists, try using a baby shampoo when notusing the tgel. Oftentimes,in regular shampoos (I dont know technical terms-sorry)theres too much of whatever causes the sudsing and it can irritate sensitive skin.
For the split ends try a deep contitioner once a week. Other than that Frieda's makes a bunch of products that help control split ends (I have a few but dont remember the names of them).

well water stinks i have it to and it like ruins my hair..