la_una_preciosa
05-23-2002, 09:36 PM
Ok,Im not sure if this is where i should post this here but i need help. I have this problem. My fiance just moved in with me, and its been about 3 weeks now. Problem is things i do when i sleep. I have been waking him up in the middle of the night with moaning he told me that when he went to wake me up it looking like i was taking my clothes off and i got into the position like i was going to have sex. When he told me this i was embarrassed and it is effecting him. He asks me who it is in my dreams and we fought about it this morning. I cant answer his questions cuase i dont remember the dreams.on some nights that i dont have this sex stuff, when im sleeping i jump back and it wakes me up but when i wake up i cant move then i go back to sleep. my fiancee got frecked out by this and so am i. I am really concerned by all of this anyone have something like this happen or have any advice?? please help me.
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la_una_preciosa
06-05-2002, 04:23 PM
For any one who reads this maybe you can help me out. My fiance has said that my activity while im sleeping has gotten worse. now im screaming and i sit up and start talking, the other night he said that i got out of bed, and walked out to the front room. He got up and put me back to bed. Now i am getting scared. He asked me if i was raped or anything. but i dont want to tell him that i was sexualy abused when i was little, i have only told one person and never told any else not even my mom. I dont know what to do and i dont want him to get upset with me or leave cuase of what is going on. I have found a number for a sleeping disorder clinic near me but i dont know if i want to go.
YadaYada
06-05-2002, 06:54 PM
For YOUR sake (not your guys) you need to deal with this now. The sleep clinic is a good start, but you may need some professional counseling.
If you don't address this now, it will likely get worse as you age. Sleepwalking is nothing to take lightly, you can injure yourself, or someone else.
Don't be ashamed or embarassed -- there are a LOT more people out here in the big wide world than you may think that have the same problem.
I'll throw a little scare into you. My grandfather walked in his sleep for most of his life. He would walk to the living room and sit in front of the fireplace - often lighting the fire he laid earlier. No one thought anything of it. When he was in his 60's he moved into a smaller house. He lived there just fine for several years. One night he was sleepwalking, went into the living room and lit the fire--that was in his old house. He died.
See a doctor 'kay?
If you don't address this now, it will likely get worse as you age. Sleepwalking is nothing to take lightly, you can injure yourself, or someone else.
Don't be ashamed or embarassed -- there are a LOT more people out here in the big wide world than you may think that have the same problem.
I'll throw a little scare into you. My grandfather walked in his sleep for most of his life. He would walk to the living room and sit in front of the fireplace - often lighting the fire he laid earlier. No one thought anything of it. When he was in his 60's he moved into a smaller house. He lived there just fine for several years. One night he was sleepwalking, went into the living room and lit the fire--that was in his old house. He died.
See a doctor 'kay?
Levy78
06-06-2002, 12:18 AM
Listen to YadaYada, he/she is right on the money. Since you are asking for opinions, I will give you mine. Definitely seek professional help.
If it is a big enough issue that you are posting messages asking for help, stating that you are afraid, etc., I would call that a sign that it is time to tackle these issues. If you want to take care of your boyfriend, you must take care of yourself first. Good Luck!
If it is a big enough issue that you are posting messages asking for help, stating that you are afraid, etc., I would call that a sign that it is time to tackle these issues. If you want to take care of your boyfriend, you must take care of yourself first. Good Luck!
slvrmoontiger
11-22-2002, 12:39 PM
I was just wondering if you have found any assistance with this. I have been trying for the last 3 weeks for help on something similar to what you are having problems with and have been running up against nothing but roadblocks... In my sleep I have physicallying and sexually attacked my wife and am now out on my own with no comfort considering I don't know who I might harm. If you've gotten some help let me know who from or where from I'm in VA and see that you are from MD.
Thanks,
slvrmoontiger
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Thanks,
slvrmoontiger
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