Is it possible to be able to recover in this enviorment? Where can I get the help to make the right decisions since I am talking about an investment of 25 years in this marriage, or do I get out before all love is lost, I am angry about all the abuse of alcohol and drugs and what it has done to his health, memory, physique etc., so I get pissed off and yell and say mean things. He shakes so bad I am not sure if it is from the beer, drugs, combo, or some disease like parkinsons or something. There is not a mean bone in his body, and I dont think to just hang in here and do nothing but contribute is the answer. ???