mt_girl
10-27-2002, 10:40 AM
Can girls get "blue balls" type feelings too? where you just ache and get moody because while turned on you don't get to cum?
I will explain, the past month or two my bf of several years has been having some problems with lasting more then a few minutes. He gets so frustrated with himself, even though I tell him it don't matter how long it lasts because he always feels awsome. (i think he understands it that I don't need anything else so he just holds me and we both fall alseep) I am get terrably moody lately when I don't get to make love to him... To the point of crying at times...
I have recently talked to him about it, however because I won't do anything while I am bleeding, I haven't seen if he will actually take note of my needs and play a little before or after he cums so I can too.
So is this normal? also... He refuses to go to the doctor for other thing so I havn't even broached the subject for this issue... He has a couple beers a day, but he has done that for a couple years now and it has never affected him before... so don't think it is that... Do any of you have any suggestions for ME? Something I could do differantly to make him last longer. (sometimes he says I wiggled too much) and while that makes me feel good that i make him cum, i wonder if I am doing something wrong to make him cum so fast...
anyhelp would be greatly appriciated
I will explain, the past month or two my bf of several years has been having some problems with lasting more then a few minutes. He gets so frustrated with himself, even though I tell him it don't matter how long it lasts because he always feels awsome. (i think he understands it that I don't need anything else so he just holds me and we both fall alseep) I am get terrably moody lately when I don't get to make love to him... To the point of crying at times...
I have recently talked to him about it, however because I won't do anything while I am bleeding, I haven't seen if he will actually take note of my needs and play a little before or after he cums so I can too.
So is this normal? also... He refuses to go to the doctor for other thing so I havn't even broached the subject for this issue... He has a couple beers a day, but he has done that for a couple years now and it has never affected him before... so don't think it is that... Do any of you have any suggestions for ME? Something I could do differantly to make him last longer. (sometimes he says I wiggled too much) and while that makes me feel good that i make him cum, i wonder if I am doing something wrong to make him cum so fast...
anyhelp would be greatly appriciated
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buck58
10-27-2002, 11:26 AM
What your referring to is called premature ejaculation. But what he needs to know is, no matter if he gets off in 2 mins. or 30 mins. He needs to make sure your needs are being met too. Like you said, if he's gonna cum that quick, what he needs to do before hand, is, get you soooo ready,with foreplay, that by the time he gets off in 3 mins. you've already had 1 or 2 orgasms yourself. I'm sure he wishes he could last longer but some men just can't. But you guys can work around this like I said above. Good luck to you both. see ya.
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