Snagglepuss
10-27-2002, 05:38 PM
ok this will sound stupid but i just recently saw the movie 40 days and 40 nights, and it got me thinking. me and my bf have sex almost every time we see each other, its become kinda like a routine. its not as good as it used to be and its not very good for him either i can tell. i was thinkin that maybe if we went a while without sex it would go back to being great instead of routine. do you think this would work? has anyone ever tried this?
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Elret
10-27-2002, 05:58 PM
My boyfriend lived 10,000 miles away for a year while he was at school and you better believe it was good when we saw each other after that!! :)
Blastoff9600
10-27-2002, 10:18 PM
I find it so sad that some people fall into to ruts with their sex life and then blame it on being together for so long or such. I have been married to my hubby for almost 8 years and never once have I found sex boring,routine,or lack luster with him.
The first three years we were rarely apart,except of course during the day whilehe was at work and I was school. The past five though we have spent times apart thanks to the base we are stationed at now. He has to go tdy quite often. We can spend anywhere from a week to three months apart. The interesting thing is when we do get back together I get more sex than normal but it is still the same wonderful sex we have been having from the get go.
You can try your idea but chances are it wont change things. You see chances are the waiting isnt going to change what is going on. You have to sit your bf down and talk to him. See what is goingon with him and your relationship. I am not saying anything is wrong just saying it might be more constructive to talk than to stop having sex. Find out if he has an fantsaies and act them out. Or change where you have sex. In other words see if spicing things up will change how you are feeling.
The first three years we were rarely apart,except of course during the day whilehe was at work and I was school. The past five though we have spent times apart thanks to the base we are stationed at now. He has to go tdy quite often. We can spend anywhere from a week to three months apart. The interesting thing is when we do get back together I get more sex than normal but it is still the same wonderful sex we have been having from the get go.
You can try your idea but chances are it wont change things. You see chances are the waiting isnt going to change what is going on. You have to sit your bf down and talk to him. See what is goingon with him and your relationship. I am not saying anything is wrong just saying it might be more constructive to talk than to stop having sex. Find out if he has an fantsaies and act them out. Or change where you have sex. In other words see if spicing things up will change how you are feeling.
Dawnrise
10-28-2002, 03:26 PM
My husband works out of state for 28 days and is home for 14 days. You better believe that the separation makes for better sex. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/love2.gif