krazykatie
10-30-2002, 03:06 AM
I've seen dildo's for anal that are skinnier than regular vaginal dildo's. Can those be used for vaginal as a beginning. I'm too tight to really get anything in there so can I work my way up to a regular size, that way or is there a better and more effiecent way that you suggest? Any good didlo's (with ***** teasers) that aren't overly expensive?
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jasmine30
10-30-2002, 05:19 AM
Teaser vibes are a smaller vibe.I dont see why anal vibes would hurt..Sweetheart our Vagina's are stretchable,if they weren't..well men would have to deliver the babies :D :D :D :D ..Take your time and make sure you have plenty of KY or Astroglide..
mlgable
10-30-2002, 10:42 AM
You mention not being able to get a tampon in so you need to sit down and do a search on the web for female anatomy and look at the diagrams and then study your own body in the mirror. You vagina is extremely stretchy but if you tense up that may be why it is hard for you to insert something into your vagina. Take more time to relax and explore your body without even thinking about a vibrator. Once you are comfortable with your body and feel comfortable with inserting things then check for a vibrator of any size. Yes you can use a slim or anal vib but take your time and enjoy the sensations outside your body with it first so that you are ready once you decide to use it internally.
timetotransform
12-14-2002, 05:18 PM
I'm guessing you are a virgin - if you can't use a tampon, there's no way you can take a man's penis inside you. Your hymen is probably in tact - check out some anatomy sites.
eyeris
12-14-2002, 05:48 PM
Getting a tampon in is quite different than getting a vibrator in. When you're inserting a tampon, you're not aroused (I'm guessing) and it makes it a little tougher. There have been times when I've felt too tight for a tampon. But when you are stimulated and your natural lubrication kicks in, the walls of the vagina become more pliable and more readily accept penetration. Starting with the small vibe is a good idea. Use it just on your clitoris for a while before you using it inside. You can also entirely skip penetrating yourself with the vibe and enjoy an orgasm by just using it clitorally. You don't have to stick it in to get a great result! Also, there are some fantastic products out there that are very reasonably priced if you shop around. I wouldn't suggest using something too short though. There are vaginal vibrators/dildos that are long, slender and narrow that might be worth a try.
wrin
12-14-2002, 07:33 PM
considering a lot of girls don't use vibrators for penetration and just use them to massage your clit, don't worry so much.
If you are older, I could see this being a problem, but I had the same problem as you when I was younger (say 13-14-15,) and it'll probably just go away on its own as you grow.
If you are older, I could see this being a problem, but I had the same problem as you when I was younger (say 13-14-15,) and it'll probably just go away on its own as you grow.
Timber
12-14-2002, 09:45 PM
Krazykatie, I stretched my hymen out before sex by starting with one lubed up finger and moving up to more fingers. I could never have gotten a dildo, much less a penis, in to myself before then.
Try that! Get some lube, and use your fingers to gradually stretch. It might be a little painful at first, but not bad...
Try that! Get some lube, and use your fingers to gradually stretch. It might be a little painful at first, but not bad...