aggressive - Autism Spectrum Message Board

garnold · 08-31-2005, 05:00 PM

my daughter is aggressive at home usually. She likes to pull her older sisters hair which is four and pushes her brother that is one down all the time. She thinks it is funny when they scream. she just laughs and thinks they are playing. did your son walk late? alli didn't walk until she was 23 months now she walks fine. she did everything late. she throws a lot of fits and gets mad easy.

Kempsmom · 08-31-2005, 06:42 PM

garnold my son did everything late also. And thinks it is just to funny when he hits. The other week when we were in the middle of upping his med he head butted me so bad that it mad my lip bleed bad and this was all over me trying to talk to my baby.(his sis) I am never sure what sets him off or even when. I have to say that when he is in overdrive (to much stimulation) he get more aggresive!!! If the baby cries, tv is to loud, dog barking. The quiter the better!!!! What has your daughters dr said about the aggresive behavoir?

Ausomemom2 my son was much younger then your when I had my baby but I did watch him like a hawk still do! But as long as the baby wasn't crying he was fine. He wanted nothing to do with the baby. He acted like she didn't even exist. It was very heart brakeing in away! But ya anyhow good luck! How does he act with your belly, like does he say baby and act happy?

Kempsmom · 09-01-2005, 06:57 AM

Hi Ausomemom2. It is good to hear that he doesn't beat baby doll. lol. Ya as far as Kemp ignoring Soph it was heart BRAKING!! I had my husband bring him up to the hospital to see the baby thinking he would want to touch and look at the baby but he was more worries about climbing under the bed running the hallways and all those big machines forget it the baby and I were chop liver. lol I thought about it and ya when Soph atarted crawling that is when he paid attention to her. So when is your due date? is this number 3 for you? Are you excited to have the baby? I was soooooo scared to have Soph. I was scared she was going to be like Kemp not that I don't love Kemp cause Kemp is so AUSOME but I couldn't handle having another one. I cried to my mom for 3 weeks every day before I gave birth. Hope everything is going well.

D & K's Mom · 09-01-2005, 07:49 AM

Hi Kemps mom, Devin was so excited that he was getting a brother. THe biggest concern that we had when baby Kyle came home from the hospital was that Devin kept trying to "help" me. I had Kyle in the play pen, and Devin thought that Kyle needed a toy, so before I could get there, he had thrown a large metal tonka truck over the edge of the play pen, smiling and saying "here baby...........I'll share." Poor little Kyle took quite a beating, but Devin was never trying to hurt him. Another time, I walked in the room just in time to see Devin cramming a huge gob of banana in Kyle's mouth, Kyle was about a week old.And of corse Devin was happy to help, saying "here baby,............you look hungry" Devin does have aggressive tendancies now, but generally not to Kyle. HE gets really mad at Kyle and puts holes in walls, and breaks things, but I can say I think he has only hit Kyle a very few times, and he has never actually hurt him. It's Kyle that I have to worry about, I have taken Devin to the hospital several times because of things that Kyle has done to him. Yeah, baby Kyle grew up, and is now seeking his revenge.

Kempsmom · 09-01-2005, 08:28 AM

You sound very funny. Good for Kyle (maybe) atleast you know he won't be a push over.lol Ya Kemp is very aggressive with everyone pretty much. Just yesterday we were at an apt. and was there for awhile so Kemp got so hyper with all those bright lights and people. That is his big set off. So anyhow he was running down the hall and so was Soph (she is just learning how to walk) and Kemp turned and was face to facew/her and growled at her the punched her with both his fistes. And that's not to mention all the other times that hour he pushed her down for no good reason. Kemp loves his sis though he doesn't like when people look at her and touch her. But I'll stop rambling.