here is probably an unpopular view and i have to tell you that i think that all of the treatments for autism are probably valid in a case by case basis BUT

my husband and i are not cure autism actvists and we are definiately all about autism pride. our kids are able to think in a way that is so creative and abstract that is almost a shame that the neurotypicals cant share that. now with that on the table dont hate me

i still think that if you can find something that works great but i dont personally feel that you can out grow autism. either he had it to begin with or he didnt. autism is a particular way your brain is wired to think and to me, it doesnt seem conceivable that you can out grow that. you can HOWEVER

through medication or behavior training along with love and understanding and of course from time to time spirit draining patience

give you kids the coping skills to live perfectly "normal" (whatever that means) lives and that may be just what you are seeing. he may get to the point that yes that label doesnt apply from a clinical point of view. does that mean he is cured or out grown his autism? to me, no. it means that what you have done worked, worked well, and now you son has the skills to deal with us "slow neurotypicals"

and the offensive world we have created.

you cant tell me that him wanting to shut the world out for a few and wrap up in a cozy blanket doesnt sound sooooo appealing sometimes
anyhow, just my point of view, no throwing rocks please!!

and the thing to think about is this, if he is improving and getting more functionally then that label will remove itself. until then if it doesnt bother you too much, that label can make the difference in his funding for services too. autism is, in maine anyhow, the label that is getting the services first at school and since special education is very limited in funding, it doesnt hurt to have that little bit extra to draw attention to our kids needs.

G-Luck