I need help, I have Asbergers - Autism Spectrum Message Board

Vote_For_Pedro · 09-02-2006, 10:50 AM

Hey I have Asbergers which leads to lots of depression and anger so I end up cutting my wrists and trying to commit suicide. I don't think my mum can cope anymore so has anybody got any advise? Please share

GatsbyLuvr1920 · 09-02-2006, 10:55 AM

Many people with Asperger's have depression (I'm not one of them). It's thought to be a secondary condition, caused by the possible social ostracism that Aspies face. You should really talk to your PCP about going on an anti-depressant to help you. If you're against medication, then you should look into therapy, particularly for the self-injurious behaviors. I don't cut myself, but I do understand the need for a "tension-release" mechanism due to the anger and pent-up frustration that is associated with the Asperger's. My method is to watch A Beautiful Mind (one of my obsessive fixations) or listen to the soundtrack, which allows me to cry on purpose and let out all of the bottled-up frustration and anxiety. I'm doing it right now, actually... Good luck, God bless, and if you have any questions, feel free to ask!

-GatsbyLuvr1920-

Vote_For_Pedro · 09-02-2006, 11:19 AM

Thank you

Just wondering what is[I]Beautiful Mind[I]?

marissamm · 09-02-2006, 12:15 PM

yes i have advice, you seem to know it is wrong and what your putting your mother thru, so STOP! it's simple.

elmhar · 09-02-2006, 01:35 PM

Maz,

First I want you to go back & carefully read Gatsby's advice. Gatsby is a young person, a college student, & I think she probably understands quite well what you may be experiencing.

Now, this is going to sound harsh, but I have 2 older teens, one NT & one on the spectrum. Both have had issues with depression & anxiety. If either of my kids, while still a minor, began engaging in self-injurious behavior, I would give them a choice of voluntarily complying with professional treatment, or being committed against their will to a treatment program, for however long it takes. While it sounds harsh, I would do whatever it takes to HELP THEM.

The second harsh thing I'm going to say is, while there can be a neurochemical basis (treatable) for self-injuring, there can also be an aspect of attention-seeking. A well-rounded treatment program will address both the neurochemical as well as the social aspects of this disorder.

If you were my kid, I'd encourage you to explore your local treatment options via the internet, then get serious on working with your family to get better.

Depression & anxiety are as treatable in Aspergers as they are in the general population. You sound like a pretty smart kid, and I bet you have good career options. Use your brains to help yourself and get on board with your true potential.

Best wishes.