hi there, i know exactly what you mean about the socks thing, my 8 year old son is very similar.he cant wear socks with strings or threads in them, doesnt like them to be to tight or go to far up his legs, and they cant be to stretchy!
were just dreading the day that the ones he has are to worn and we have to find new! if you find anywhere that does sutible ones, will you let me know!
lucy

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