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Old 05-28-2007, 12:04 AM   #1
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I am a U.S. Marine overseas. I really don't know what this site is for, but I guess I need some type of assurance that things will be OK. My twins both were diagnosed with autism and I am shocked. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night praying that my boys will be OK one day. Any suggestions to have them start talking, get haircuts, and how to get the gears start rolling back into my life.

 
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Re: Help!!!

Hello Hutch

I am retired from a local school system and have worked with autistic syudents. My work was confined to the higher end of the scale... aspberger's. I do not know where your children lay on the spectrum. What I do know is that I am developing a keen interest in autism since I retired and am thinking of returning to work as an aide to autistic teens.

My online research ha shown some promising research in ythe use of Omega# fish oil and autism. Maybe some research would be worth your while.

I think the best assurance I can give you is to tell you that my work with autistic teens thus far has been so very, very pleasant and rewarding. Most have exceptionally good thinking in what strikes their fancy. Most have great intelligence. It is a very misunderstood condition. I don't know for sure how to get them to start talking, but I would talk to them constantly and play lots and lots of nursey rhymes and little songs. The words will be in their minds and hopefully they will produce them when they can.

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Old 05-28-2007, 06:53 AM   #3
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My son is 9yrs old and was diagnosed with autism at about 2yrs old. The best thing I can tell you is to do as much research as you can. There are many different schools of thought on diet and supplement treatment, and even some medical treatments that people will say work miracles. Try what you can and what you are comfortable with (and can afford, some things are quite expensive). The BEST thing you can do is get as much therapy as you can. Speech, Occupational, Play therapy, music therapy...anything you can. It maybe slow going at first. My son did not talk either and it seemed like we spent millions of hours just working on the simplest things with no results. Then, one day, you see him do something that you had just about given up on as hopeless and it makes it all worth while. My son attends a regular 2nd grade class with an aide only for Art and Music sometimes and PE all the time only because he can get overwhelmed with all the activity and noise. He's very smart. Reads, writes and is starting on multiplication this year. We never knew when he was 2 and 3 that he would ever do those things. Just don't give up. You may be frustrated for a few years, but therapy works. The younger you start the better the results usually. But remember, every child is different and autism is a spectrum. Some kids do better than others, but I believe they all can all do better with therapy than without. Good Luck

 
Old 05-30-2007, 06:33 PM   #4
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Your not alone, I'm glad you realize one think! They are your sons!!! My son too has autism and we didn't know til he was almost 4 years old because he walked, sat everything except talked at the right age. And yes my husband took it hard at first, but with time and understanding it will improve, just have faith!!! My son did not like to get haircuts, did not like the sound of the ocean and hated the sand. He is now going to be 7 years old and has learned to set still for haircuts, loves the water and can touch the sand....It takes time, and repeat repeat and repeat. Some childred don't like change some are okay. Just take one day at a time, there is so many parents that are learning just like you and me. You will be fine, always support your wife. Good luck and remember they are your sons!!!!!!!!!!

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SEMPER FI!!!!! This site is WONDERFUL when you have questions, concerns or just when you need to relate to someone who truly knows what you are going through. Keep it in your "favorites" because personally I have found it more helpful than any book I have ever read.
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