hi all, im 26 and have two georges children, one of which is was born with a condition called hydrocepolus, he was ok at first but as the years past he developed epelepsy (severe) learning difficulties and now autisim, its hard to understand what his feeling or thinkin. i want to help him but at times i find it frustratin, i feel realy bad about this. i want to know what helps, games, diets anything, please help. ethan (my son) loves music, he realy does, this sometimes calms him dawn but not allways. im open to any sugestion. thank you.