Have you all heard about or read Jenny Mccarthy's book Mother Warriors?
She tells the story of how her son was cured of Autism as a result of all the research she's done on the disorder and trying different things to impove his condition.
I don't have any children myself, but I was so inspired when she was on the Oprah Show the other day and I am going to check that book out really soon.
It sounds like you both have very very intelligent children and hopefully, if you decided to check out Jenny Mccarthy's (and her son's) story, it will help improve their conditions.
Take Care Ladies and good luck to you and your little ones