I have a grandson who is 4yrs 3mnths, luckily we sought help very early on and as diagnosed as autistic at 2yrs, he is a joy and cherished not only by us but by all who come into contact with him, we are at the moment trying to toilet train him, he is non verbal at the moment but his facilitaor, speech theapist etc all have high hopes for him,he refuses ue the toilet and wont stand on his little stool we bought, he seems to have control of his bladder because he seems to save his wee's when he dos'nt have his nappy on, we tke him to the toilet every 20mins but so far no joy, he will "go" if we stand him in the bath though which I suppose is an improvemet. Any pearls of wisdom out there???