I have seen quite a few posts on this website regarding other women with this issue. My problem is my wife of 10 years has this problem and I don't know how to bring it up to her that I would like for her to get it waxed or something to git rid of it. I know it would be an uncomfortable subject for her and she will probably get ****** if I bring it up. Any advice would be appreciated.
Mentioning this to your wife will go over as well as if she asked you if you had considered having a penis enlargement to make you at least average size. If it doesn't bother her, it shouldn't bother you.
If you "put up" with it for 10 whole years... than you can go a lifetime without it bothering you.
I agree with everyone else, women are sensitive and if you bring something like that up she's likely to smack you in the face. (haha, kidding) But seriously, if it doesn't bother her then it shouldn't bother you either.
Last edited by MoonLight0; 06-03-2006 at 09:04 AM.
Thanks to everyone who has replied so far and your advice is great. I am glad I decided to get some input before trying to bring it up. I do love her so much that it really doesn't matter/bother me at all really. I appreciate everyone being open and honest with me on the issue.
Personally, I think it is a great idea. Less is more in that department, in my opinion. But, without knowing her personality, it's hard to say how you should bring it up. I've had to bring this subject up before. It went over pretty well. I have a feeling that this is somewhat age dependent though. Younger women seem to be more open to that kind of thing, older ones tend to be more into "au naturale".
If she's already taking care of the front, she probably won't be too averse to taking care of the back. And if she wants you to "return the favor", you'd better be prepared to do so. If she does do it, you should make everything associated with it a very, very positive experience - if you know what I mean.
You should accept her for who she is. And like what Moonlight0 said, "If you put up with it for 10yrs" you can deal with it as long as you guys are together.
I have buttcrack hairs lol. It's not a funny matter, but I can't help it if god made me this way. Besides, sometimes shaving can cause hair bumps. And for me that's why I choose not to shave cause I end up getting hair bumps because I have what's called Hidradenitis Suppurativa. I know she probably doesn't have this condition, but still. There's more to life than worrying abut buttcrack hairs. Give me a break!
I never gave that region much thought until i went into a salon to have a brazilian out of pure curiosity. The lady asked me if i'd like to have the butt crack region done so i said why not. The difference is absolutely amazing. Once you have removed hair from that region there is no going back. Especially during hot summers it feels so much cleaner.
Now going to a salon can get expensive, so sometimes i shave that area and other times i'll stick some wax into the microwave and do it myself. Mind you, you do have to get into some unladylike positions when doing it yourself and and extra pair of hands would help. If your wife is used to waxing her bikini line or other parts of her body, then maybe with your help she would extend it to the butt crack. If you try this, it's best to buy the wax which washes off in water b/c the mess just washes off.
If your wife has never been overly adventurous in waxing down there, instead of saying "why don't you get your crack waxed", why don't you say that you would like to get his and hers brazilians and during your intimate moments later you can compliment her and tell her how nice and smooth it feels when you touch her in the previously hair covered regions. This could go a lot further towards her getting waxed in that area more often in the future and she might even see it as "her idea". Also, she doesn't have to be hair free down their all of the time, if she sometimes leaves the butt crack area as it is and other times gets a wax, you both benefit, but seriously, it's not a big area to do on your own, just takes a little experience. Good luck.
im a girl i am hairy down there i thought this was,nt normal and never really had a bf because of it i do have sexual relations but only when i have waxed everywhere i thought was,nt normal but i still feel if my man found out he,d leave me
so ur a lovely man to even be married to her i think
i dont think she waxs she,s proberbly normal except for her crack coz if she waxed her bikini line she would do her crack so ur lucky her hair aint all down her upper leg bikini line
Humans have hair on every part of their bodies with the exception of the palms and the soles.
If a person would end a relationship over the amount of hair in a particular area, that person has bigger issues than your hair, and you'd be lucky to find that out before wasting one more minute on that relationship.