My girlfriend has autoimmune problems. how can I help her?
Hi. First post, so hope I don't make a fool of myself. Three months ago I met the most amazing woman, and I'm crazy about her. But we live five hundred miles apart (we meet when we can), and she has autoimmune problems. Consequently a lot of our communication is very short, and she is tired all the time. Sometimes she does not want to talk and other times her head just feels awful and she can be very abrupt and irritable. I understand it's not personal, and I want to say and do the right thing, but what can I say? I don't know how to handle this, I just feel useless.