it breaks my heart too.
I wasn't aware he had bypass surg - when did he have this? have you tried ensure? or can he not even keep liquids down. I am so sorry for how things are for him - he has GOT to realize how meaningful HE is to you and your family, don't really know what to say. IF he would consider letting them admit him and at least get some fluids and nutrients in him he'd have to feel some better? I don't know what advice to offer you my friend. when you say he can't keep anything down "again" has this happened before? while it's not the same as bypass my co-worker just had surg for a bowel obstruction and she has the same dilema as your bf - she is however managing to keep baby food, jello & pudding down? maybe this will at least get him some nutrients til he can see what his original Dr has to say tomorrow? JD is absolutely right, IF he gets to bad he really has NO choice HE will have to agree to go to the hospital or YOU will have to make sure he gets there (somehow)
Sounds like you, my love, have OVER DID things ~ and with your added worry of his health that just adds to it. Oh how I wish I could just tell you to relax and rest today.....if only you BOTH could. Take some skittles and pack your butt with ice!!! As I sit here typing this my bottom is soggy from my ice but it DOES dull the pain.
YOU ARE NOT A BAD person!!!!
Don't EVER think that! you bring so much caring and concern here to complete strangers ~ a BAD person would be unable to even imagine doing that let alone actually do it and succeed.
Things will turn around for both of you - but in order for this to happen NEITHER one of you can "give up" on yourselves OR eachother!
please keep posting today and be here where people care about you.
NONE of us can fix this but we can support you while the two of you do it.
Love, hugs & prayers
sent to both of you