Hi,
First, dont let anyone try to suggest to you a long wearing lipstick like Covergirl Outlast or Max Factor lipfinity. Those are not lipstains!

A GREAT place to find lipstains (because they arent sold in drug stores) is Sephora.com..the sephora website
They have some from Nars, Vincent Longo and Sephora. I LOVE all of those. Some are pinky, some are orangy. The website has color samples on it also. Benefit has one called Benetint. Pinky and smells like roses. Lipstain is great for when you want to have some color without goopyness. And you can always put clear gloss overtop.