Re: almost any fragranced / perfumed toiletries give me headaches. what should I get?
My mom is the same way! She just looks for fragrnce free products. She also has rosacea so it's hard for her to find products gentle enough for her face. Look for products with more natural ingredients, fragrance free, and non-irritating. You can always see a dermatologist and get products through the derm if you are having trouble finding things that work for you at the store.
Luckily I am able to wear scented products, but only certain ones! Anything floral or too perfume-like gives me a migraine so I have to stick with fruit or sweet scented things. Chocolate gives me migraines, even the scent of it if I'm baking cookies or brownies for somebody... migraines are definitely no fun!