rd1978

I know this question is quite general,, and people are on there best behavior around people they arent close to,, and im not even sure if my ex is bipolar but she does show alot of the signs,, all except of being depressed,, which she may hide well,, i have seen her down in the dumps with very rapid weight changes in the past..... but i havent seen the depressed crying etc.etc. { but maybe i wouldnt know about that side ,,and she doesnt show it to anyone ?

When she is around me and her family she is can be very clusmy at times,, doesnt pay attention to what she is doing,, always in a rush rush rush, unless she is tired, which is usually at the flick of a switch then she becomes tired and cranky all at once... She is very apt to just let go whats on her mind without thinking about what she is saying,, not very understaning about things ,, jeliousy often get's in the way... can be fidigy,, very very low amount of patience,,,she def used to throw alot of temper tantrums if she doesnt get her way,, compares things and is usually alot more negative than positive ,, and seems to think alot of things are "unfair"..., needs more than normal amount of attention ,,, seems to get the idea that when i do certain things she can complain about it but when she does the same things or worse it doesnt seem to be an issue,,{maybe its because it's a decision she made ,,,,,, she can be very stubborn and unrealistic not seeing my ideas or sides to the story.... NOT always though..... it only seems that she shows this side to me or her family.....

now with other people that she isnt really close it seems she pays attention much more.. slows herself down,, doesnt have the comments or outburst's nearly as often,,isnt negative about things around them,, acts cherry all the time,,OVERLY, outgoing ,and friendly ,,