Troy, that is one of my favorite subjects !!!
I am male. Are you (the name implies it) ???
My chemical heritage seems to dictate sexual urge to the point of death. So it was with my father. So it is with my brother. So sayeth they unto Izaiah...
I also did Dep (up to 4000mg/day) and Klonopin (up to 4mg/day) along with zoloft (up to 400mg/day). Those became the "limits" when the Pdoc failed to have any degree of success going down "that" path...
During those months (about 9 of them), my wife noted ONE particular thing.
Instead of being ready any time and any place (which I still was) - I no longer cared to put up with manipulative BS for the promise of sex.
THAT was the major change. Indifference !!!
I had been led down the primrose path too many times... If you do this or stop doing that, then I'll perform x, y and or z... She NEVER did her part after I did mine ~ so the meds helped me say HEY, forget you ~ I don't care to be manipulated like that, so pardon me while I make a date with the bar of Zest in the shower (or some such response)...
That's it !!!