My relationship seems to be declining. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We've had many downs, such as my depressive fits, which he has always helped me whenever I was hospitalized. But now, at this point, after being very suicidal for a week, and on constant crying spells, he doesn't help me. When a problem in our relationship comes up, he avoids it. How do you deal with someone that means so much to you but are so passive and anyime a problem arrises they just avoid it, run away, and try to make you feel guilty? Its tearing me apart. And I've already been falling apart before this. He's a "quick fix guy" and when its not fixed he blames me fore it. I seem to be playing the roll of his Second Mother. I love him, but its decling, because he cant face reality, and refuses to be responsible and wont grow up. I cry everyday about it. And the guilt trips he lays on me doesn't make it any better. How do I approach this. Please. Any help or listening would help so much.
Thanks,
-Derangea
