| | My fiance is BIpolar and TBI
I have been with my fiancee for over six years but lately he is confused, and he has started lying all the time. He gets mad even hostile at supporting his lie. Later on it could be the same day or later on in the week, he will tell me that he doesnt lie, that he is a very honest person, and he is offended by me reminding him of the lies he has told me and his family. For three days he yelled at me telling me to drop it, but he is the one, trying to bring up situation, where I have to say he is lying or say nothing at all. I do not know what to do. He tells me that they are not lies, they are just versions of the truth, and a half truth is not a lie. Will this grow or is he just cycling do to stress. He won't go to counseling at all. My kids and I left our apt, because his behavior was so erratic. He was acting like we weren't even there at times, and he would come and go, and not tell us anything. I need to know what happened. Could it be his meds. I was really scared for my children and scared for myself: he seemed not to know truth from reality. He knew we had to leave to take the kids to my X husband, but he refused to fix the car, just because he didn't want us to leave. He has done things before to keep me from leaving, and I end up being late for work, or appointment I needed to make. He scared me so much this last time, I literally did not know what to do, because there was no reasoning with him at all. One lie he told, I was so shocked I though he was joking, and he asked me to get on the phone, and legitimize his lie, and when I didnt I chased me into the kitchen, and I was down in floor, whether I fell I cannot remember, but he just kept pushing the phone into the side of my face until I confirmed his lie. He lied to me about his religious affilitaion, he lied to me about his intentions toward me, he lied to me about what happened between and His X, who he has a child by, he lied about wanting marrying me, he lied about the relationship he had with his family members, We went on vacation with his parents to Cape Cod, and it wa s nice resort, and everytime, I turned around he was peeing on shrubs and side of buildings saying, take that, dad, I didn't want to come here. But he yelled at me, for not wanting to go on the trip. WIth everyone else he acts like he has conflict aversion. And with me, he yells and even bullies me at times. He told me he tells lies or half truths, in hopes that they come true. what am I do to do. Thank you for reading my posts. I need help and ideas!