Re: Breaking free...
Oh do I know that feeling. My wife before her dio was impossible to be around. I wanted out so badly.
I guess one could say that fortunelly we had a MAJOR event that caused her to understand that she needed help and she sought it. I might even say that we sought it.
Keep up with her if you can. She may come back and need the support that only a true friend, partner, or family member can give.
I'm not saying to get back in a realationship with her. However, if she reaches out for help, be there to get her started.
You will be blessed no matter what.