BIG ((((HUGS))), McDreamy
I know that this was not an easy decision.....I say that you should give him space and time to figure things out...he obviously is not in a good place and most likely cannot be reasoned with.
Do you know where he is staying???? Is he with his sponsor???
The thing is....he is responsible for his health and well being and has to come to the realization that if he wants to do the right thing for you and your marriage it would be to do his best to be stabelized so that he can offer his best to you. To do any less than that is not honoring his vows as your husband. He must learn to own up to his responsibility to himeself and to you to keep himself well. He has his doctor's number and will have to reach out for the help that he needs. I would really take this time to let go and focus upon recharging yourself and releasing yourself from the responsibility of taking care of him.....he needs to learn to do that himself and you need to do the same.
I, too, will say a few prayers for you that you will find some peace and learn to use this time to refocus on YOU....the rest is really up to him.
((HUGS)) ~ Goody