Hello Shoo,
Sorry to hear that your daughter is having these problems. The side effects you mention occur with some meds, but not usually with the ones you mention your daughter is on. Hair loss and problems with memory can happen with lithium and depakote, but I haven't heard of it with lamictal. Actually the shakiness is also a symptom with lithium. My son has that on occasion. I believe Zoloft can cause this shakiness, too.
I hope others will post with their experiences, as I haven't been too much help! Sorry.

Tsohl