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Old 09-14-2007, 11:51 AM   #1
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thinking about running away, don't know what else to do

i don't know what to do. i'm having problems handling the checkbook and don't know what to do about it. my husband is going to kill me when he finds out what i have done. i've been bouncing checks but not on purpose. nothing ever seems to add up right.

i just feel like running away. i don't want to face him with this. what am i going to do?

a month ago i ran into the same thing and my husband found out. he was very angry with me. this is the second notice i get this month for different checks.

i know i have to tell him but i don't dare to. i'm sorry, i know there is nothing anyone can tell me that i don't already know, but i'm scared that he'll leave me.

what would you do? i feel like i should just leave. i cause him more problems then anything else.

went to the pdoc today but i didnt' have time to discuss this with him. had other things to discuss that were just as important. please someone talk to me i don't know what to do.

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Re: thinking about running away, don't know what else to do

Why dont you let him handle the checkbook? take the pressure off yourself..

 
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Why dont you let him handle the checkbook? take the pressure off yourself..
yes, I agree this is a wonderful idea...

 
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Re: thinking about running away, don't know what else to do

thanks to the both of you for the advice, but i've already spoken to my husband about this many times and he feels that i shoulld be able to handle it on my own. i'm the one who has always handled it for the past seventeen years. i don't know what has happen this past year. i just can't seem to be able to balance anything not just the checkbook.

forget it it's my problem and i'll just have to tell him. after having some sleep i feel better about it.

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Re: thinking about running away, don't know what else to do

Well yes it's your problem but that doesn't mean you can't ask for advice!

I do agree though, you'll probably feel better after getting some rest. And often with things like this, once it's out in the open and you got it over with, it will be a relief.

I hope and pray your husband will be understanding.

Kathrin

 
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