the akward moments of bp in conversation -- eep! - Bipolar Disorder Message Board

happydays:) · 09-18-2007, 08:43 PM

do any others out there with bp ever find bp coming up in coversation and feel like youre on the spot even with people that dont know that youre bp? I've had this happed twice this week! And it always comes up in a negative context. driving me nuts. what do you all do in these situations? i generally blush furiously and then just try to keep the conversation moving forward. haha.

laladybug · 09-18-2007, 09:55 PM

I've had it for 15 years and used to be ashamed and avoid it like you. Sometimes I try to add a lil education into the convo. But, this is huge, I have actually told a few people this year that I am BP if it comes up. No one died and I still have friends. So My advice is understand what you have is just like say diabetes, and let your friends and family know. The support is so much better than the hiding and shame. I wish I had that advice 15 years ago... Best to you

Llama · 09-19-2007, 12:32 AM

I know what you are saying happydays. I never say anything at all. And yes, usually it can be something negative. Like a co-worker making fun of a co-worker because one day she was crabby and the next was normal again. "Oh maybe she's crazy. Maybe she's bipolar." Akward.

jules3 · 09-19-2007, 06:05 AM

I see this very often with my son. but i blame the medication..

twoeyez · 09-19-2007, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by happydays:)

do any others out there with bp ever find bp coming up in coversation and feel like youre on the spot even with people that dont know that youre bp? .....
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You can use one of two approches : !) No responce is the best responce.( used this in my younger years when I lacked selfesteam ). 2) As I grew older (65 now), I have told others this : "It's better to alleviate any stigma about bipolar diaorder though proper education. If you have a moment, let me share with you some of my thoughts." Sometimes time does not promit, and I would just invite these people to sit down "over coffee" for a little more information. In the last 24 year of my stability,I have never been turned down for my personal information about bipolar disorder. And "respect" is what they always walk away with.

Carry On,