question about bc and sex - Birth Control Message Board

flyaway2 · 06-22-2005, 12:32 AM

ok I've posted a few times, I guess I'm just always paranoid...Ok so I had sex twice today without a condom and I'm on ortho tri-cyclen lo, I've been doing pretty good with it...but today after the first time we had sex he stayed inside of me for a long time...does that give any chance of making it easier to get pregnant? I know I shouldn't worry because Birth Control was made so you didn't have to use back up...but there is still always that chance that makes you fear! thanks....

babygirl2005_21 · 06-22-2005, 09:22 AM

As long as you are taking your pill every day around the same time then you have no reason to worry!

mblacks2 · 07-04-2005, 12:42 PM

I know EXACTLY how you feel 100%. I feel like that every time I have sex. However, I found that if we start without a condom and then he puts one on before he finishes I feel a lot better. Maybe you should try that even if you don't like it. It'll help you feel better. I don't like stopping to put one on either, and I'm sure you don't but honestly you will feel better. Birth control does work like it says it does, but I know how you feel.

chickabom · 07-04-2005, 09:29 PM

why dont you just ask him to pull out?

Pesh · 07-05-2005, 07:01 PM

having him pull out will give you that extra piece of mind. That way, you don't have to worry about using a condom, and you know the chance of getting pregnant is probably as likely as an immaculate conception, haha!