Help-first time sex concerns! - Birth Control Message Board

Evyadult20 · 08-09-2006, 11:06 PM

Ok so my bf and I just had sex for the first time (both were virgins) like this Monday. Today is only wed of the same week and I'm freaking out because we did not use protection. I repeat... we did not use protection! I've been on the pill for more then a year and been doing fine on it, and he did pull out. I know this is not a safe practice because he can have preejac...fluid, but he did not even go half way in me cuz it hurt so bad. I did not even feel any sort of pleasure so it would suck if I did get pregnant. Should I worry about getting pregnant if I take the pill not religiously but never skip any for the past almost two years? Not only is that my only concern, but after we had sex, I bled quite alot and still have some spotting now. When I go to the bathroom there is more spotting (dont mean to be gross) but I dont need to wear even a pantiliner. Normal? Should I be okay? Please help! OH and do I need to take the pill at the exact time every day?

novemberbride · 08-10-2006, 06:43 AM

First of all...stop freaking out and relax. If you are on the pill and have been taking it- you should be fine. it's great that you are both virgins, but you should use a condom with everyone else from here on out until you get into a very serious relationship and are older. Pregnant isnt the worst thing that can come of sex. Just relax and wait for your period.
Amanda

Evyadult20 · 08-11-2006, 01:17 AM

Thanks for replying! I've read so many different boards and have recieved different opinions both on the net and from actual people. Its hard to actually know like all of this stuff. Some say yah dont worry your safe, but others omgosh no condoms, your doomed! I dk well thanks though I appreciate it, I've been freaking out for the past three days.