Re: Safe without a condom
Preventing pregnancy is birth control's job! As long as you've been on it long enough to take effect (which I believe is a week, but read the info instead of taking my word) then you should be safe. As long as you've taken the pill everyday at the same time (or as close to as possible) then your chances of becoming pregnant are minimal.
I understand being nervous about him going inside you. I would be to. Infact, my boyfriend is so worried about pregnancy, that even though I'm on the pill, he insists on wearing a condom, even though he hates them!
I believe mishaps happen for girls on the pill when they forget to take them for a day here and there, or take them hours apart.
So aslong as you've taken them daily around the same time, you should be protected from pregnancy.