| Re: going off bc
I was on the pill for over 15 years and it took over a year for it to come back after I quit. And it wasn't like all the sudden I realized it was back. I mean, I had to help it along a lot, too. You have to make sure that you're paying attention to how you're feeling, because it's really a subtle change - and for women who have gone without a labido for a long time, it's almost hard to realize that it's sort of making a reappearance.
I mean, you should try to encourage yourself to feel like you have a sex drive again. Otherwise it might take a lot longer, if at all.... I've found that especially on these boards that a lot of women think it's gone permanently, but in reality they have just forgotten what it felt like to have a sex drive, so they don't recognize when it starts coming back.
Just pay attention to how you're feeling and eventually you'll probably notice you actually start thinking about having sex again and you'll want it again.
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