| | - Pretty sure BC killed my relationship....
Hey everyone, I'm a guy so I know this may be a bit weird that i'm on here, I just figured it'd be best for me to do it here anyways.
So basically, me and my girlfriend (EX Girlfriend now..) were together for almost a year and a half, we were each others first for everything. We both helped each other out emotionally a lot, especially me for her, she was in quite a bad way throughout the start of the relationship. I worked on the emotional side REALLY hard for the first year, which ended up in us having an extremely solid bond.
We are both virgins and sex for us at first was a big deal, needed the first time to be with the right person. She always said from about the 6th month in that she knew I was the one she wanted it to be with, but had to sort her self out before we could (She's EXTREMELY self-conscious)
So yeah, everything with us was fine, perfect even. Always going out together, always happy, always loved up. We both agree that we feel ready to have sex, she went to the doctors to get birth control. She just missed her period (I think this is what she said) and so she had to wait for another month until she could start taking them.
Now this is where it suddenly went so sour. Within that month of waiting, we was the most sexually active we'd ever been, she was extremely excited about taking the birth control so we could finally have sex. She even wanted us to go on a holiday alone during this summer.
The month is up and I fall ill with glandular fever. She proceeds to taking the BC. Doctors told her to stay away from me for a few weeks because I was very contagious etc. Obviously I had a secluded illness, so I wasn't in the best of moods and sometimes we had little arguments over texts/phone - Nothing major.
NOW, the first week or so when I was ill, she was fine with me. Then as the weeks went on I noticed her getting increasingly irritated by things I said. Like one day I said something (wasn't even arguing, was just a general conversation) and she got so irritated that she didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. This happened for about 3 weeks, just her constantly being angry with me when to be fair, I wasn't even bad. I'll admit I was sometimes moody, it's understandable though.
Fast forward to when we're re-united, we meet up and she says about how i've made her so angry and upset. And that she feels she doesn't love me the same. We broke up about a week later after that when it got the better of me and I asked if she still wanted the relationship.
She said she still loves me and cares for me but see's me differently now. All of this happening alongside when she took her birth control, to me it just doesn't seem right. When you look at how close we were to suddenly how it is now. She stood infront of me and said "It just feels like i'm talking to a friend now" and she said that it's as much of a shock to me as it is to her.
She can't re-call when it happened, she doesn't know how it happened and she didn't want it to happen. She just said when we met up she didn't get those feelings like before.
What do you think about it?