Re: Withdrawal/Pre-***/Fertility Awareness
I know several marriage couples who had sex 'safely' by using your method, for years. But two of the couples, gets their wives have another pregnancy, 8 and 11 years later, measuring from last child's age. Remarkably, the couple that 8 years later had another pregnancy, they mentioned to us that they were never on pill or condom and any kind of contraceptions. Else couple had a mixture but very less contraceptions.
To me, I prefer the safe game, at least a condom. We had two infants right now. You know how heavy is financially to bear and feed a child nowadays, not too mention it's hard to find a good baby-sitter either. Even an abortion is not cheap either, comparing to pill and condom.
Anyway, have you aware of difficulties in having a pregnancy? I think you should consider that factor. Both of you.