Back in November, I had unprotected sex. He was a military guy, so naturally, I thought he was clean. We only performed the deed once, and then we both went on about our business. Fast forward to today, I'm a nervous wreck waiting for my test results. Early March, I got a UTI. It was the first one I'd had in years, so I knew something wasn't quite right. I went to my local clinic to get tested for the more common STIs, and in the process, the nurse tested me for HIV. That's when the panic set in....