I am going to be scheduled for Sphinteroplasty surgery due to bowel incontinence. I am very scared about the surgery. I am 62 now, I had hemmorhoid surgery back in 1975 and it was not bad at all. Can anyone tell me if they had it done did it help. I have been in bed since xmas day. I had a few acidents at xmas and I am now afraid to go anywhere. I only go to dr. appts.