ladyjadey

Im a 23 year old female and when i go to the loo sometimes there is a little blood when i wipe my back passage not in the stool (guessing that's a bit better?) so today i looked using a mirror.... im not sure how to describe it but i had like a skin coloured "thing" near my anus and also like 3 very small sore patches kind like iv taken skin from the top of a blister and its left a little red sore patch not inside my anus but very close to the opening its sore as well i don't want to see my doctor because find it a little embarrassing the only person who has seen there is my boyfriend (hes never said anything about it) and only because "doggy style not anal" :S can someone help me please it comes and goes when it wants sometimes feels worse than others i just tend to leave it but now its becoming a bit annoying and want something to help it go away for good! all my bowl movements are ok soft enough etc i think i do have ibs but im not 100% sure im sorry about too much info but with out it no one can help me

thank you from a very embarrassed LadeyJ :'(