I'm a bit embarrassed to ask this question, so much so, that when I registered my user name, I spelled embarrassed wrong.
Anyway ---deep breath--- here goes:
I'm a woman in my early 40s. When I masturbate w/ a full bladder I have intense orgasms. My hubby likes to get amourous in the mornings and I'd love to be able to just turn to him and go for it ... but I usually wake up needing hte bathroom and I'm afraid if I don't relieve myself first, I'll 'burst' during intercourse, leaving us w/ a big, wet, smelly mess!!!
Are my fears justified? I've had a couple of kids. I do NOT have regular stress incontinence like some women experience after child birth. BUT afraid the motion and penetration of intercourse might be too much for me to take. Anybody got any experience w/ this?