Hi,
I have not had any pelvic surgeries yet. I keep checking posts here and on the hysterectomy board to learn more about what to expect from them.
All I know is that if your uterus is fine, DON'T have it removed. Once the uterus is removed all the other pelvic organs don't have as good support and those organs down there tend to have more of a tendency to prolapse in the future. Since you already have issues with your bladder, you want to keep the uterus in there to help support it.
Also, I have not heard great things about mesh. But I cannot give you any specific details. Please do your research before having any type of surgery. Also, please research your doctor and get a second opinion from a completely different doctor/practice before having any surgery.